girl help: but i haven’t kissed a guy & i’m scared too. - Help.com

it’s normal to flirt with more than one person when the guy is single.

can you meet him at school first, where there are other people around, so there is less pressure? then see the movie another day, after that?

I know exactly how you feel

go ahead and give it a shot! flirting is fun, and it doesn’t always mean that there’s something serious going on, but your guys seems to really want to make a good situation work. he seems respectful of your feelings and genuinely attracted to you. go out on a limb and try to hang out with him at school. that way you’ll be able to see how he acts in real life and in public with you. does he still act like the same guy you were attracted to?

if things work out all right between you two, go ahead and go to the movies with him, just be safe and don’t EVER do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing, even if it’s just a small kiss. good luck :)

You are just scared hes going to use you then hurt you. I was like that when i was younger lol. I was scared to do any thing when it came to guys because to me they were all about the same thing. He could be lieing he could be telling the truth. I really dont know him so i cant say. Has he had a girlfriend before that you know of? If so did he treat her with respect and was loyal?

Hes being honest and telling you that yea he flirts but its nothing serious. No, i doubt he is a player. Players dont say things like that they make everything perfect and beautiful. Anyways, dont be shy hes probably just as scared as you. Kissing is no big deal, the first time it is so enjoy it. Dont be nervous, have fun and good luck

I’ve never kissed someone before like you because I think it’s important or big deal to kiss someone.but if he is real good guy,I think it’s good.

Well everyone moves at there own speed. Dont rush into anything. Its very normal to be nervouse and scared.
He sounds like a good guy and everything, but you half to be carefull. Because somethimes guys can say one thing but mean or do another.
kissing is not a big deal but it can be a big step for someone who has never done it before. You may be scared that, the kiss will lead to other things. and thats normal too.
So my advice to you is tell him how you feel. and dont leave anything out. and if you feel that nerviouse you should consider making this movie get to gether and double date. bring some friends along so you can get compfritable in this kind of atmisfear.
Just take it one slow step at a time. and take as much time as you want.
You have all the time in the world to mature and grow up.

i think u should just go for it your being stupid it not that much of a big deal and if it dont work out theres plenty of other fish in the sea

just go for it……………