kiss help: Hey,ive always been unsure if im doing it right so im just gonna ask! - Help.com

urm…ask some one youve kissed???

thats akward!bu like to u guys whats the most amazing kiss and how would u do it ????????

french kiss? i dunno- im just guessing lol

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/French_kiss
http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/fr…
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/Lov…
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/550551

personally i think that if you have a lot of natural chemistry with someone, and both of you are able to go with the flow and get lost in it, that makes for an excellent kiss. if you are thinking too hard about where and how you’re putting your tongue or lips, it probably wouldn’t be a great kiss. if you are feeling secure, you can ask people you kissed for honest feedback. they might share without you asking if it was especially good. =)

thanks but i know how and what a french kiss is and i have been told im good but i wanna know how to blow someone away !!lika an amazing irst kiss everytime!!!

Wow anon someones been studying…

lol

ok well scratch that part about feedback, but i still stick with what i said about natural chemistry =)

ye i kno but like what should i actualy do wit my tongue??ie.circular motion,poke,twirl etc????

i don’t think you need to think about that… just get caught up in the moment… if you’ve been told you’re good, then you’re good already!

all of it possibly?

ye i know but whats the best?what to people generally prefer?whats the most breath taking?i kno iv been told im good but i wanna be great!

i think it’s really important that you relax about it… if you obsess about technique it really isn’t going to help you get better… but if you disagree with me, maybe you can get a cosmo subscription ;)

. . . im 15!im not disagreeing with you i just need specifics!!!

You mustve heard someone talking about this so you want to achieve it? lol

well, that is what i am trying to say. i think that if you focus too much on specifics, you’ll get worse, not better.

but cosmo or seventeen would be happy to give you lists of techniques, it’s how they sell magazines

I find cosmo a bit too racey for my liking lol. But it could help this poster who is in desperate need of knowing how to be the perfect kisser.

no anon lol but theres a girl i really love and i want to really impress her,we havent kissed yet!(im a girl to by the way)but well iv had my fair share of kisses but some were way better then others?i wonder how?were all basically doing the same thing but how do i be one of the better kissers?

lol, ya it’s a bit too racy for me too. but it does tend to focus on technique. my former roommate used to read it all the time, she would show me those lists.

My former roommate did the same lol. I would just sit there and be like oh ok that sounds interesting…

Poster I say just go with the flow and enjoy it. Dont worry if you are great or not. As long as you arent biting his tougue and leaving him with a bloody mouth then you are a ok :)

Anonymous wrote:
no anon lol but theres a girl i really love and i want to really impress her,we havent kissed yet!(im a girl to by the way)but well iv had my fair share of kisses but some were way better then others?i wonder how?were all basically doing the same thing but how do i be one of the better kissers?

I didnt see this lol. Well i think it all depends on chemistry. A kiss can tell you a lot about a person i guess. Like whether like a them or not. If theres no chemistry then you will know

i think that a kiss can be as beautiful as a flower, as deep as an ocean, and as revealing as an intimate conversation. i can feel a lot about someone from the kiss that he and i share.

i think you’re doing it a huge disservice to box in into what technique to use with your tongue.

there is something between us i feel,like even if i rub my hand against her she looks at me all shy but cute and away ,then back with a smaile!i feel my heart pounding and an energy!!!is that chemisty?
salmon linguine i kno its more then technique ,i know how to set mood and how to feel and just lose yourself in the moment ,im in love of course i know that but i was wondering could u improve the technique to make it more special for my lover?im one person in the world who i gurantee knows expression,passion,love ,intimacy etc

then you have nothing to worry about. it will be special. you’re fine.

ye,sorry i freak out over everything lol!i just want to make her happy!the only problem is im notmtotally sure of her sexuality!

Wow thats a problem you shouldve addressed first before thinking about kissing her lol. If you kiss her and shes not gay then you could have problems

u think i havent thought about that lol!? i know and i wouldnt kiss her before i knew for sure. but she gives me the odd sign . ..i cant just ask her out,itd be to uncomfortable

can you tell her about your own sexuality and watch for how she reacts? are you “out”?

this post turned out to be completely different than i thought lol

Well before asking her out get to know her. That way you can bring her sexuality up in a conversation w/o it being so awkward/uncomfortable

salmon linguine wrote:
this post turned out to be completely different than i thought lol

I was thinking the same thing lol.

im not out ,only like 2 friends know!what did u expect this post to be like?
ye im getting to know her and i love everything so far,maybe . . .she really wants me to spend the night but im not allowed and she looked so hurt when i told her i couldnt ! :(

Well:), first of all an amazing kisser doesn’t have to ask:)
Secondly, figure it out for yourself:)

i dont have to ask and i do but thres always room for improvement

Anonymous wrote:
im not out ,only like 2 friends know!what did u expect this post to be like?
ye im getting to know her and i love everything so far,maybe . . .she really wants me to spend the night but im not allowed and she looked so hurt when i told her i couldnt ! :(

Why couldn’t you spend the night? And honestly, asking about sexuality ins’t as awkward as you might think, I have done it before because I thought the girl I liked was gay, it isn’t awkward. You should just ask. =)

im a bit nervous to ask.my parents wouldnt let me ,typically!

Anonymous wrote:
im a bit nervous to ask.my parents wouldnt let me ,typically!

Why not? Do they know?