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jeaniecarpentier
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An update on me.

So im online again, hopefully for good.
I think my ex wants me back.
I dont love him, and i dont want him back.
I care about him alot, but i feel like he has a lot of growing up to do.
My mom is in a hospital.
Kinda like a mental hospital.
They call it a crisis home.
My stepdad left her.
He was abusive.
Ill be on as much as i can.

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gimli offline Verified User (6 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Marietta, GA, US | 4 years, 10 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Don’t take your ex back…but do keep chugging along. And, do feel free to yell for help when you need a listening ear!

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shol'vah offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Anchorage, AK, US | 4 years, 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Sounds like you know what to do with the ex, just stick near your mom. She probably needs your support right now.

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bohica767 offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

jeannie:

Good evening. Is there a way I can talk to you one on one? I would like to get to know you. Please contact me

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Sans offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

Hi jeanie. I remember you being on a while back. Good to hear from you again. You seem to be posting but not replying to your posts. If you want someone to talk to, stick around long enough to talk.

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Larry G offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Washburn, ND, US | 4 years, 10 months ago (8 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Hey girl, keep your head up and don’t be afraid to shout at me or anyone else. It is always good to hear from you. Times are tough but if we stick together we can get through them.

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jeaniecarpentier offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (9 hours, 19 minutes after post)

sansceriph wrote:
Hi jeanie. I remember you being on a while back. Good to hear from you again. You seem to be posting but not replying to your posts. If you want someone to talk to, stick around long enough to talk.

well i work so i cant stay up all night online.
i have to work mornings so i wait a bit then go to bed.
like now, it is morning, im checking in, then goin to work

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c-eek offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (17 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Yes, when you need a friend, you will always find one here. Let’s hope for a quick recovery for your mother. What kind of work do you do? Sometimes work can be a wonderful diversion from one’s challenges at home.

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Sami_18 offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

Dont have him back if you dont love him - if he needs to grow up he needs to do it on his own. Girl, you have enough pressure on you atm you dont need to be worrying about him as well. Talk to him, tell him you still care but you dont love him, and what you think he needs to, then maybe he’ll take some action. Dont worry about your mum, i know its hard but at least now she isnt still in an abusive relationship. She’ll pull through it will just take a bit of adjustment time. In the mean time make sure you look out for yourself x x x

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halflife offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 5 months ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

tell your ex you just want to be friends. I’m sorry about your mother, I hope she gets better.

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c6-01 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 years, 4 months after post)

Well, i was reading your earlier posts and knew that you left your home when you were 14, seems like you should have a great experience with the world around and the people. Some time love ones change, they really do, they realize that they were completely wrong and they were so mean and selfish. I am also someone’s ex boyfriend.
i Say you should meet him at lest once on a coffee or a dinner, just figure him out, if he is really changed person or not, i think you are really an expert in that…go for it…….

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