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My best guy friend and me hangout a lot and we are very close and i like him as a friend and more but

when we hug or get really close I get this weird/akward feeling and I don’t know if he likes me back.

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Nante Tha Count offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 380 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

Hmmmm well there is only one way to find out…

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Fever Dream offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 75 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Ooooh! Oooh! i know the answer to this one!
I had this happen to me, What i did was ask one of our mutual good friends to ask The Friend that i had a crush on If she liked me. And of course her role was completely as a mutual party. for ME it turned out she didn’t have the same feelings But it did stop me from making any moves that i would regret later. and I’m glad to say i lost those feelings and we are still good friends.

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Indigo_Rain offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 275 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Go the Nante route and force it out of him using moldy cheese and rotten tomatoes in a form of torture. (Which I’m sure is what he was implying, you know.)

Just talk to him. Not hard at all. It’ll be awkward for a bit if he says no, but if you just be yourself, you’ll get over it. If you’re too shy for that, go the FeverDream Route. There was a good point being made there. Or there’s truth or dare. Get all your friends together and have a “truth or dare” off when it’s his turn have someone else ask him.

And sometimes that awkward feeling can come from him. I got it from someone I knew I only liked as a friend, and eventually when I asked him he said yeah he liked me (to which I chalked up like 7 esp points but like 12 awkward points). Just ask. When I asked, it was a text in the form of a sudden topic change. Granted, my life became awkward really fast but it should be easier for you since you like him back.

Good luck.

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sweetheart-89 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Columbia, SC, US | 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

when this happened to me one of my friends told him w/out me knowing that i liked him but was afraid to ask him out bcuz i didnt want to reck our friendship and so he asked me out so know we are dating and still best friends

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (15 hours, 35 minutes after post)

voice of experience?
dont date bestfriends.
it gets painful. and u lose ur bestfriend.

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