Love help: Me and my gf have been together for 15 months, but i am having feelings for another girl. - Help.com



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Me and my gf have been together for 15 months, but i am having feelings for another girl.

Well, i dont think that im happy with my gf anymore, she doesnt act the same like she used to. The physical and emotional attractions from her to me are like DEAD. Up until recently i have felt and acted the same just as when we 1st started dating. I know that i am unhappy, but idk what to do because ive been with her so long that it scares me to be without her. This other girl that i like right now makes me SUPER happy though, even though we dont know each other that well.

can SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME! what do i do?
how do i do it??? please

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Fever Dream offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Alright. If i were in that position i can only really see one painful solution, Taking the time out, Sitting down in a 1v1 conversation and telling your girlfriend exactly whats in this post. Word for Word if you have to but the only way your going to get through turbulence in a relationship is to Talk and communicate about what your feeling. Good Luck to ya!

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