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Ok, I am extremely confused.

I am 23 years old. I am a complete girly-girl. I have been with my current boyfriend for 4 years and I love him to death. I have no friends that are girls because 3 years ago my so called “best friends” got in to a fight and made up a rumor that was a lesbian. At first I laughed it off because of course I knew I was not a lesbian. I have never had a crush on a girl and although I think some girls are attractive I have never had the urge to be with a woman. Over time the rumor spread and now I feel like everyone thinks I am gay. I am a very sensitive, emotional, and anxious person about everything. Although I have tried to overcome this these girls are out to destroy me. Now I constantly think people are talking about me and I have become extremely anti social because of this. The only thing that keeps me from going insane is my boyfriend. Help?!?

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Are you still friends with these three girls that started the rumors? If so, dump them. Any good friends you have besides them - if they’re good friends they’ll believe you, not rumors. Just live your life and ignore the silliness.

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Stone Wolf offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Why not go and talk to your bf about it? vent to him and also dont be anti-social go and meet some new people, go to a new club or bar and meet some new girls to hang with just make sure they’re rihgt group. Once you get out there anf you find that people arnt talking about you or anything things will brighten up. Also…just a hinch…because you have has a sensation about a girl being attractive…do you think maybe your bi? just a hinch

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

No I don’t think she’s bi. I can appreciate the beauty of other women and I’m not bi.

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Stone Wolf offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

mmm I’m a guy so…any girl looks cute to me..lol

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Fever Dream offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

rumors arent that bad of a problem
they become bad problems when you let them get a hold of you and take them seriously.
Try your best not to worry about it,
Things will get better if Rumors are the worst of you problems
Keep you chin high! =D

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nbyram4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

Bond further with your boyfriend and ditch those *******…they sure are not friends you want to have.

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