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no i dont think that your tooyoung i tink that your right your mom probaly dosent like the idea of you leaving “the nest” ((=D)lol) so dont worry.

i dont think that you are too young either. shes probably just scared to lose connection with you. you need to promise her that youll call and visit her all the time. and you need to live up to that promise too. :]

I don’t think you’re too young either. What age is old enough for your mom? 35? 45??

Ur not too young, its a good age actually, sit down n talk to her telling her hats going on and y u think ur ready but if she still isnt convinced then u tell her im going anyway but ill call u as much as possible, u gotta respect ur mom yes but dnt let her control u for the rest of ur life. this sounds like a good move, go ahead for it.

Just talk with your mother and reassure her that you’ve got things worked out and you’ll definitely stay in contact with her. It sounds like you have a good relationship.
You’re not too young - I’ve been living with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and I’m 21 and he’s 20. And we earn a lot less than you do, lol :P
She’s just worried about you, and needs some reassurance :)

Btw - I’m a mom of kids aged 16 to 21 and even I’m saying you’re not too young, if that matters :P

This is the only way you can test your love ,companionship and all the rest what you need in life to be together .Go for it …..

i don t fink ur too young your mum might change her opinion after you have moved in with him and she sees you can handle it

Hey - maybe YOU DONT WANT to/are having second thoughts yourSelf. If so, thats ok, don’t move. Try to see if you are questioning b/c you are having second thought syourself or b/c of your mom.

If you are, dont do it.

If its b/c of your mom - try to explain and then just do what you need to do. Sometimes we cant always please everyone. You sound responsible. Why do you think she doesnt want you to?

You’re the only daughter. What kind of man would you think is good enough for your only daughter? She might love him to pieces, but if it was your little girl, you’d be very reluctant.

If it feels right, move in with him. If it doesn’t, keep your own place. Having somewhere to escape to when you feel like being alone isn’t always a bad thing.

Ignore the marriage people. Live life on your terms. Marriage sounds like an obvious answer to conservative Christians, but if it doesn’t work out, you have to involve lawyers. Only enter into something that requires lawyers to dissolve as a last resort. Maybe you’re not ready to get married. No big deal. I wouldn’t suggest doing that if you’re shaky about moving in with someone.

The long and the short of it is that you should try to understand where your family is coming from. You’re their little princess. And he’s the evil filthy lech trying to corrupt their little princess. Natural reaction. I’d have the same reaction myself. It’s been the way of parents since time immemorial.

Go ahead, make the move, and if it doesn’t work out, or it’s weird or uncomfortable, I can virtually guarantee your parents will let you move back home, if you have to.