Lonliness is such a universal feelings that in my eyes it never truly exists, and defnately should never exist, so you came to the right place!
Hope, however slight, is a great thing to have. Once hope is gone your never gonna pick yourself up. So thats a good start. Keep on hoping!
As for the perfect person staring back at you, I’ve never really experienced that either. But the thing is, the perfect person, or soulmate, is always around the corner. They might take forever to find, but its sure gonna be worth the wait!
Take heart in that a lot of people feel isolated and lonely, but there is always people you can connect with, and find love with. Its all a matter of waiting.
Don’t give up hope! :)
Thank you very much for your post Cosmic, It feels good to know that someone else has gone through what I have, probably many more people have to, I will continue to keep my hope, and hope that someday its leads me to that perfect someone staring back at me. I just have one question though, if you dont mind my asking, how do you never lose hope, or regain it if you lost it? If you can’t answer this that is ok to. Thank you once again for your post Cosmic, best of luck to you.
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A friend of mine said she felt lonely in her marriage as she and her husband lead very different lives, even though she says she believes they are still in love.
Cosmic Fool has put it really well. There is someone out there waiting to meet someone just like you.
Thank you Bonnie. Its just sometimes i fel hopeless, like maybe there is someone out there, but for some reason i felt like i already met her and blew it, leaving me no hope for the future, you know?
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Hope is something I feel passionate about. I wrote a few words about it, though I never finished. If it helps I can finish it off and post the whole thing?
Sure. If it is ok with you?
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Needing someone to make you whole is tough. A community group or friends can help you and them. Lots of people need shoulders of support or buddies and maybe one is looking for you. The best things come to us in a surprise:. Yours is coming soon:)
Hope has been my weakest area recently, for the past year, maybe 2 years now, before then I had hope, I had a dream, a bad day was just a bad day, and i knew a good day would come, but now ever since my friend is gone, lifes just not the same without her, i guess it wasn’t so much about her, as in a way she was a symbol of my dreams, and now that she is gone, the dream of having something better, something that filled my life, has left also. Please add to this if you can. Thank you.
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I’ll give it a shot :) Your post has given me the inspiration to finish it so it will be an honour! And if it helps, then its more than worth posting it =)
I’ll invite a good friend:)
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Thank you very much Cosmic and Max, you help is much appreciated.
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I feel alone sometimes so I know how do you feel but all i can say that i would rather be alone than being with someone who is not good for me . No one completes anyone , you are already complete .
Thank you Nextstar, but I really do feel incomplete without someone by my side, i feel that the only way to have any meaning in your life is by having someone else loving and standing with you. And as the saying goes, no man is an island.
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While its true that no man is an island, it is possible to be happy without someone by your side. Having someone to love you is the most important thing to me, and many others! But before that happens, you can remain happy, and grow into the person someone will grow to love.
I finished the post, I really hope it helps. Not amazing but I’m happy with it :)
http://help.com/post/176910-hope#mesg
Thats where its posted. Best of luck!
You are not on a island…you are with us:)
Thank you very much cosmic. I will check it out.
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There are many sides of fulfillment. You can only hope but there should be someone who is also wishing for the same. You are wishing underneath the same big sky. :)
Thank you max and lilies.
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No problem! By the way, “I really hope it helps” was not an intended pun :p Something poetic about it though lol!
Max and lilies, beautiful words! What a dream to be on the same island, underneath the same big sky. =)
Thank you for your post Cosmic, i just finished reading it, and it was very good. I see that we really, as people, all experence the same things, and it is how and what we make of those successes or failures that plays a role in our future. I seem to just have that trouble, which i’m sure you’ve gone through, where you are right at the brink of self destruction, unfortinately i am at that very point. Thank you very much for your words of hope to me though Cosmic.
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Thanks, that means a lot :)
Your realisation that your not alone is the thing that will give you hope to overcome the bad times! The realisation that other people have been through similar, and come through it. So underneath it all, you know you will get back on top!
It takes time to come back from the brink, but the sooner the better. Because you’ll soon realise happiness is a choice. A very hard choice, but one you can choose to make. Give it time, you’ll find your way, and then you’ll find love!
Cosmic Fool
nextstar
~lilies~