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I met this boy about two months ago.

We met at a huge music festival, in the VIP room, waiting to meet a band. He asked what band it was, so I told him and then after that we kept talking. He tried to make me laugh. Once because he couldn’t figure out where to put his autograph booklet, so he stuck it in his pants. He took it out after a few minutes, ran and put it under a couch, then came back. He gave me a piece of gum and touched my fingers with his while giving me it. So after we went to find his friend and see a set, and he asked me for my number with a cheesy reason. (Hey, what’s your number? In case we get lost.) and gave me his number and put his name in as ‘Dillon is sexy.’ He introduced me to his friend and almost held my hand while we were walking to the front of the pit. When I went out he looked kinda sad, and hugged me tight when I hugged him. I texted him later that night, and he replied in under a minute, and we texted for a few minutes before we both went to sleep. I texted him again the next day asking if he was there and he told me after a few minutes I was a loser for wanting to hang with him.
So I asked him a few days later if he had a myspace, and we added each other. His relationship status at first was ‘Divorced’ but like a day after I added him it became single. He commented me a couple days later, and then asked if I had a screen name. I gave him it, and the second I signed on later, he IM’d me. And the next time we were both on he IM’d me and we talked about random crap for 40+ minutes.
But then he got kinda weird. I IM’d him and he was all distant and he didn’t answer any of my texts. And when I was on vacation I commented him and he commented me back, but when I replied he didn’t. And then he changed again.
I texted him on the 1st and he replied and we talked for like half an hour, and the longest he took to reply was 7 minutes. We got to talking about guitar and I said I played badly, and he asked how long I’d been playing for, and I said about a year and a half, but my hands were way too small. He said “keep trying. (:” I texted him again later that night, and he texted me while he was playing x box. I didn’t want to seem desperate or whatever so I didn’t text him the next day, and yesterday I texted him again and we texted for a few minutes and I haven’t talked to him since then.
He was on aim today, but he didn’t IM me and I didn’t IM him.
So what do you think?
Does he like me or no?
He’s single.
When my ex and I broke up my myspace status was divorced for a while, too.

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dscreation offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Okay i do this too, i try not to im the girl to look like i’m needy.. i wait a little till she im’s me.. because last times i did and i dont want to look needy understand?

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

oh and i only read the last part..

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 1,053 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

You posted this exact thread a few days ago.

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jetmoo offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

why don’t you go real quiet for a while n see if starts to wonder where you’ve gone? He might ask how you are or if your ok. always worked for me lol actually I’m playing that game with my bf right now lol The only way you would really know is if he chases you :) y dont you guys hang bout together? mind you. be safe about it. but if he does want to. make sure he comes to your and you dont go to his. (this shows he chasing you) :) if you do everything that he wants he may take you for granted. if you talk all the time he wants to, but he does not do that for you. it would sound like he was getting too big for his boots. hopes this helps alil

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Cosmic Fool offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Sounds like he likes you but has some personaly problems. Might be better to give him a bit of space to clear his head. But tell him your thinking of him or something sweet like that and if he likes you, he’ll get back to you when his own head is sorted!

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