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I am having nightmares that my ex is married.

I haven’t dated anyone in 4 years, and although I’m still in love with him, I do not want to get back together with him. I haven’t even heard from him for years, and I’m sure he’s probably married or has kids or something. I think that means I’m crazy.

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vidaur offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

Move on. If you don’t want to get back together with him, what’s the use in loving him.

Date someone else and fall in love with someone you do want to be with?

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jessic_spec offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Strum, WI, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

why did he leave you? it just means that it is time for you to get back out there and date.

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carnivale offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

How are those nightmares? If you don’t want to be with him they should be great dreams and a great relif for you.

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thep offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (23 minutes after post)

I agree with Jebus Zeus (CoalMan) and think you need to completely let go of the past, with this issue.

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TulipsDream offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Akron, OH, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (51 minutes after post)

If you don’t want to be in a relationship with you then how do you come come to the conclusion that you love him? I think you just think you do… but i agree, you need to start dating again

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caramel0991 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

GET OVER HIM!!! obviously you know that you need to get over him so do it! i know its hard but i mean ****. after four years of not being with some one and having dreams about your ex, its telling you to move on!!!!

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