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More good news.

I would just like to tell everyone about a fantastic thing that happened to me today.

I was on the bus going into town today and I was rather pissed off about something. (won’t get into what here as I have already stated, negativity is not allowed) Evidently it was quite obvious how I was feeling to others observing me. A girl around about my age who was sitting across from me got up, sat beside me and asked me what was wrong. I had never seen or met this girl in my life yet I somehow got the feeling that she genuinely cared about a total stranger and wanted to help. So I opened up. For around 45 minutes I talked to her about my problems and she shared some of hers. This was all without even knowing each others names. (I still don’t by the way)

This incident ended up leaving me feeling far better, and it put me in a great mood for the entire day.

It got me thinking a lot about the users of this site. I mean, to me, when she approached me I thought it was phenomenal, for an entire stranger to genuinely care about another person whom she had never met before, and to have the guts to approach that person and try to make a difference. The more I thought about it, the more it reminded me of this site. I had never thought about it in this way before. The amount of users on this site that get so involved, that care so deeply about others. Other people whom they have never met. When I started looking at it in this way it fascinated me. There have been two users that I will not mention by name that have had a profound effect on me and have helped me a great deal. This happens to hundred of people every single day here.

I guess what I’m trying to say here is in part, a thank you, and in part a congratulations. Every single one of you have helped build a community based on people helping total strangers. A wonderful community that makes a significant difference to anybody who has seeked help with a particular issue. And you have all done it out of kindness, and genuine compassion for other people. You are all wonderful people that I feel honoured to have been a part of this fantastic community.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Some nice words from Hey..iknowyou. Ones which i could only agree with. Admittily i have not been here very long, nor have i been as involved as others but from what you see here you can tell there are a lot of people here who have a good heart and want to help others and get help themselves. I know personally i came onto this site with with certain thoughts and just talking to peopel makes it seem different, you can get such a different perspective on things.

It does seem unusual for someone in public to do sotmhing like that. However it does show that there are still people out there who are interested in others and willing to lend a helping hand. On the buses near me everyone seems to stay as far away from each other as possible!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Thanks for sharing your story!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

Yeah, I agree. There are some pretty kind people on here. I’m new but many a voices have helped me already.

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Anchorage, AK, US | 3 months ago (2 hours after post)

Thanks for that story, not often that sort of thing happens in public or face to face anymore.

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Lisle, IL, US | 3 months ago (4 hours, 28 minutes after post)

that is such a great story.
i sincerely thank you for sharing that. love love love it.
i love everyone.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (4 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Thanks for this post. Reminds me that random acts of kindness go a long way. :)

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (10 hours, 29 minutes after post)

that’s just unbelievable! I wish there were more people like that. that girl rocks.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (19 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Glad people liked it, thank you to everybody for their contribution :)

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Thank you for your reply. I’m new to this so if I’m not navigating the site correctly just let me know! I am glad to hear about the girl lending you an ear. It is so rare to find someone who takes the time to care and to be genuine about it. I wish I could meet a “bus stranger ” to talk to. And, again, thank you for the advice.

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