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I have a serious question.

I’m completly in love with my ex boyfriend, who I was with for over a year and we went through some problems before he left for boot camp ( hes in the coast guard now) . He left for 2 months and came back and called me, and ever since then we have been together but not together. He lives in the keys and i live in fort lauderdale. So i see him every 2/3 weeks and each time we do its always me and him. we constantly call each other and hes always going threw my mind. But the problem is hes stuck in the keys for 2 years and im going to be here in fort lauderdale for my college. we claims he loves me and i know i love him too but im scared to stay w him for so long and in the end nothing works out. We do fight every now and then but thats typical. what should i do? should i stay w him n see what happens or should i end it n live my life.

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

If your not certain then your not really in love. This is something you KNOW not something anyone can tell you.

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ridethatwavex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

im just scared to loose him because i dont want to move down there i have a life here too

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friendaliciou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (26 minutes after post)

umm..i would say that..if you love him then BE WITH HIM…:p
but your college is just more important so finish of studying and then you could find a decent dude…

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ridethatwavex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (31 minutes after post)

yea i understand. but i truly dont want another guy right now

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friendaliciou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

concentrate on studying right now and dont worry about the guy…but still keep contact with him…

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ridethatwavex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (34 minutes after post)

thats what i was thinking

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friendaliciou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

yeahh…then you do that…it would be good for you…

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ridethatwavex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (37 minutes after post)

what if he asks me to move with him to the keys?

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friendaliciou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (39 minutes after post)

just say that you need to concentrate with your studies and that you dont have to move in with him…but you still can see each other once in a while…

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ridethatwavex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (40 minutes after post)

alright, thank you

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friendaliciou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (44 minutes after post)

No problem!!!…

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Ms. LL offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

omg i have no advice for this but i am goin through the same exact thing. im in Fl and my b/f is about to go to korea for a year…we also argue every now and then, which is normal (since right now i am long distance from him as well bein in the military) but i will be back wit him in 2 months….but then 2 months after i get back to the states he is leavin for a year to korea. i was just thinkin today should i just end it now just in case it doesnt work i would feel like i was wasting my time…or should i see how it all plays out. i know this is your post…sorry for rambling

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ridethatwavex offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 days, 16 hours after post)

i dont know what to say to that, im going threw the samething. but i decided to stay w mine because i love him. n if u love yours… then u should stay w him

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