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Body Image ; You are beautiful.

Right now. Today. Just as you are, just the way you look as you read those three words: You. Are. Beautiful. Say it slowly aloud, as if the phrase were a foreign language, for it probably is.

You are beautiful. Now say it in the first person singular.

I am beautiful.

Do you know that? If so, remind yourself of this glorious fact every day. If not, it is time to become beautiful in your own eyes. This will require a makeover of sorts, but not the kind you think. Learning to love the way you look has nothing to do with starting a diet or reshaping your eyebrows. Accepting and embracing your authentic beauty means seeing yourself from the inside out. I love me, I love me not–I love me.

Beauty may only be skin deep, but there is nothing superficial about the complicated relationship that a person has with their appearance. How you see yourself and how you think other people see you—your body image—is deeply connected to how you feel about yourself.

The effects of a negative body image can be devastating. If you don’t like the way you look, you probably don’t like the woman you are. And those feelings of worthlessness, self-consciousness, and inadequacy will insinuate their way into nearly every area of your life—into your friendships, your career, your romances, and, most importantly, your relationship with yourself.

A positive body image is equally powerful. It is not an instant solution to all of life’s problems, but a starting point, a spark that can set off a fabulous chain reaction. Loving how you look when you catch a glimpse of yourself in a mirror or store window paves the path of self-love, and with that acceptance comes self-esteem, confidence, and authentic beauty, a radiance that glows from within. A beauty that is more than skin deep.

I did not write this,Just wanted to share because I know it is possible.I’m working on it myself so If you want to talk maybe we can help each other :D Also if you know anyone that may need it -Pass it on.

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sillee offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

i am beautiful. :)
thanksss.

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optimismiles offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

aw what a lovely post.
everybody should work on focusing on the good, the parts they like about themselves, for we are constantly picking on the bad. everyone has beauty, inner and outer.

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♪ qΛ§Ħ ♪ online Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 553 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

WOW! Lovely Post. Kim, I love ur posts. But I dont have much time now a days. I’ll read them all one day when I m free :)

And about this post. Its Amazing also.

Now I feel that “I AM BEAUTIFUL” :)

Thanx

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Fever Dream offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

Oh My God.
That is a total Rip off of my self help Blurb
Body Image ; You Is beautiful.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 34 minutes after post)

i am beautiful and full of light.

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steff offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 98 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (11 hours, 8 minutes after post)

thanks for sharing Kim!

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*Kayla* offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 81 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (11 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Thanks for sharing Kim. It’s great that someone can be an advocate for natural beauty.

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MamaBear {Felicity} offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 120 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (12 hours, 24 minutes after post)

You all welcome :D

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Tobee offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

I have always told people around me that everyone has something beautiful, you just have to really observe beyond the materialistic advertising out there. I enjoyed reading this. I don’t consider myself “beautiful” but I have been liking myself more these days since I’m being true to myself in many things.

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Radiohead_Phreak offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

“you probably don’t like the woman you are” ….? nope i cant say that i do :D

meh i know i r ugly i dont care, when ever i feel down i just go for a run,walk or a bike ride.. what can i say i am a male and simple things amuse me.. hold on i think i see something shiny i must go grab it…

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steff offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 98 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

lol. good one radiohead_phreak. I wish we wouldn’t care so much about looks at all. We are all beautiful and can all enjoy life…and the simple things.

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