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Hi it’s been a while since I been on - how yall going?

I’m not sure why I’m on.
i’m feeling a bi down - I’ve just had a lot of different things happening right now and I hate my job and i miss seeing my friends
people are suprisingly different from who you think they are
sometimes i feel that i’m the more dependent one in a friendship - that i’m the one who will chase up for a meeting and be desperate to see them again and they’re happy with just letting me be.
yeah yeah i know it’s just a big whinge for me but i just need a release **** it

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Eat me? offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Itchen, M4, GB | 4 years, 10 months ago (11 minutes after post)

:)
im Good
and yeeah arragea a big picnic or something :)

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Red_Sky offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Mas…how does one become an expert on picnics (sorry this just really caught my interest for some reason!)?

But back to the actual post. I really don’t think the situation here is being dependent, people are just lazy. Seriously, I know it sounds like a stupid reason, but it’s the same reason people don’t stay in touch after high school. We all say we’re going to, we all really want to, but does anyone ever pick up the phone to make the effort? Everyone knows, everyone’s gotten new friends and I don’t know if it’s because that’s intimidating or that we just don’t know what’s going on in other people’s lives. But make the effort to see your friends! Promise it’ll make you and them happy.

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