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Major problem…

Ok I’m going to start by saying this may seem screwy seeing as how I post a lot of problems about girls who I start to like on here.

Anyways recently I have have developed feelings for this girl down the street, who I have known for many years. Hell we were each others first kiss in kindergarten(Dare). But Yea I have started to like her, and she now knows, thanks to one of my friends. But I was wondering if you all think I shoud ask her out or not? That’s all I want nothing more.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Sure, ask her out. Why would you not?

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Paranoid Android offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

If you really like her then you should take the chance. Life is too short to sit and watch great opportunities pass you by. If she says yes then that’s great! If she says no then oh well, life goes on, right?

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忍者™ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Jackson, MI, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

But the thing is in many times in my past I have been hurt, and turned down.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Be brave. You may get rejected but you may not. You have to take chances.

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Paranoid Android offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Hmm, well if we all didn’t do the things we wanted for the fear of being hurt, then we wouldn’t get very far in life. Do you think that she likes you too?

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Radiohead_Phreak offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Ask her out its better to know than it is to stay in limbo wondering!! :D

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draken200 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

take a chance. dont let fear hold you back. it may not be a happy ever after ending, but if you do nothing.. you`ll never know.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

go for it

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Fever Dream offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Have you tried plasma nades?
Thats what i pull out when i have problems

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忍者™ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Jackson, MI, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (53 minutes after post)

Fever that has nothing to do with this topic… I do the same, I still loose the flip, cause I walk forward and it land on me

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-=Kara=- offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (58 minutes after post)

I think you should try like a test date and see how that goes, you know something a little romantic but not an official date. There you can test that waters throw some signals and see how she responds, if it goes well then ask her out.

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wowgrrl offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 days, 17 hours after post)

At this point in your life there’s no need to commit 100% to anyone, but figuring out what you want in a relationship takes practice as well.

Talk to your friend down the street - admit how weird it is that you’ve known each other for so long and are now developing stronger feelings, and see how she responds.

If she’s not into it, then turn your attention elsewhere for a little bit - sports, schoolwork, your friends, etc. Sometimes a girl needs a bit of time to think about whether she likes you or not after she finds out you like her… don’t go and wreck it by immediately chasing another girl :)

But then again, don’t get so stuck on one girl that you’re miserable that she doesn’t feel the same! It’s a hard balancing act :)

Valdesta
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忍者™ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Jackson, MI, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 week, 6 days after post)

Screw it I was to late to ask her out. Someone got to her first.

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