life help: Hi im Candy Jones i need help with my life , im so lonely and dont know what to do in life . - Help.com

Hi im Candy Jones i need help with my life , im so lonely and dont know what to do in life .

i finished high school and now i dont know what i want to do in life , im stuck . i can do alot , but when i want to do somthing its so far away and i dont want to leave my family behind or my son , i just dont have a clue please help me out , im cosidering going to the army, i dont know what it is i cant get a job in DC no were people seem afraid of me . but im not ugly i look fine . So what is it i have a myspace page people clik to me fast , so am i curesd ,HELP FAST

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

please not the Army. Killing people is not a very good solution
to not knowing what to do.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 73 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Go to college?

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Or technical school

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I’ve been told not to try to convert people.
But hey, I’ve got Jesus. He’s there to provide direction for me.

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candyJ140 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

ive prayed alot its been 5 years i havent done nothing , and college i dont have a good transcipt to get in , i can only go to a vocational school . i might just go to the army i have no other choice,

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

candyJ140 wrote:
ive prayed alot its been 5 years i havent done nothing , and college i dont have a good transcipt to get in , i can only go to a vocational school . i might just go to the army i have no other choice,

but what about the killing. Do you really want to get involved in killing other people?

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

You do too have a choice! Why would going to a community college or something be so bad?
What are your passions?

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candyJ140 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

i feel like killing mysefl but i have my son to keep me going , hes the only reason im here really ,

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Do you have anything else you enjoy?

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candyJ140 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

animals helping them but ive been turned away from voluntering people just dont like me at all i dont know what it is , im not ugly , but i dont have no friends at all so that blows me . this happen everysince i had my son i lost my friends and it seem like my life to

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (15 minutes after post)

hey, you enjoy helping animals? sound like we’ve got a potential veterinary technician. You can totally go to a community college for that kind of training!

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1 year, 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I say focus on finding peace and joy…..getting in God for me, I’m not sure how for you…but yeah - singleeyed has a good idea - vet tech - how about that? army? are you kidding? they’re duping people, not taking care of soldiers when they return now…dont do that to yourself you’ll be more miseralbe thane ver and wish you hadnt at least thats what i think.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

yes many veterinarians need skilled help. And they pay well too.

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candyJ140 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

to far for me and DC dosent take the online courses as a diploma or degree mabey i should move but i have nno job , i get assistatance welfare

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

That is a tough situation. I honestly think that if you’re a Christian, and it sounds to me like you are, that you need to pray specifically for guidance– not for money or for a way out. God can use you in times of trouble as well as times of blessing.

I totally think that vet tech sounds like a great fit for you? Can you think of any way that would work? Is there any help you could get from family members financially, or someone to move in with while you go to school?

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candyJ140 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

i feel like crap , thanks for the advice , but i have to find somthing , last year i gave myself a deadline if i didnt get a job i would rob somone or just do somthing stupi im only 23 and i still fell like im 17 18 , when i was pregnat , i fell as though life went to fast for me , and its just real hard, no body gets me my family thinks to much from me im smarter than everyone and i have to do alot spell read right i fell like a mom at 40 but im not , i jjust hate it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

i had a job but i almost died going to work , i end up in the hospital with a bad flue. i just need help, but thanks any way

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I just shot up a quick prayer for you Candy. I hope the Lord takes care of you. It’s all I can do to help you… and I hope someone around you will step up and give you what they can.

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candyJ140 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (26 minutes after post)

thank you i needed that .

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Hey, do you mind if I like, become your friend on here? I would love to hear updates from you on how you’re doing.

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dev_guyan offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Maybe you should do some voluntary work, helping people usually gets you to unexpected places, you finds the pleasures in helping people provides the biggest blessings which doesn’t always come from the monetary assistance.

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candyJ140 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

ok how do i do that

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

i know you will be helped and soon.!!

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daisy2217 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (29 minutes after post)

You said you have a child….that is the most important thing right now!!!! Be a mother,and everything else will fall into place….

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

candy, if you’d like to be my friend on here, you click on my name or whatever and on my mini profile click on the little guy in blue next to my name… it pops up like “add friend” or something. tell you if you get it.

and i agree, being a mother is a huge deal, and i can tell you love your little one! they’re lucky to have you.

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candyJ140 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (34 minutes after post)

ok your added , im about to lay down and think about somthing , ill keep u updated if anythinh goes good godnight

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Thank you, and again, I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Goodnight!

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