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How do I break up with a guy that I’ve been going out for a year and he tell me he LOVES me and I not quite sure what to do…

..I like him but he doesn’t let me have friends (guys) and I’m really social with guys but he doesn’t like it.I have another friend he supports me and has feelings for me .Should I go with him after the break up?

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2 months ago (1 minute after post)

one thing at a time, girl.
first - just tell him. say that it isn’t a good fit/you are sorry but aren’t feeling it anymore….best to be honest in nicest way possible. gluck

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j.griffe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (15 minutes after post)

comein for a guy……..iv been dateing a girl 4 about the same time and if she were to break up with me,i would want the reason way,her honesty about the whole thing and some closer.once u walk away u cant turn back.in a year he has to love u,know that u r gonna hurt him more then u have if u keep talking to him,so give it anuff time before u try to be friends….

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j.griffe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (18 minutes after post)

o and they other guy after a year might just be ur rebound but if u care 4 the first one thats gonna kill him so good luckand be carefull

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (3 hours, 5 minutes after post)

Let him know exactly what you want. No need to hide feelings from him. Then, see if you can compromise. If he will and you will, then it is going to work.

If it is not working, then you might know if you’d go on with it or not.

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