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I need help.

I’m 19 years old, I seem to be going through a bad patch in my life, I can’t sleep at all unless I am under the influence of alcohol and drugs, I seem to evade family and friends so I can smoke drugs. I feel I am overweight, yet I don’t do anything to help. I think my partner who I have been with for 2 and a half years is growing to hate me. But no matter what I do, I give into my weakness and do anything to get hold of something. I hate this me, I was never like this, I dont know what to do… please help me. :( Life is such a struggle and I’m only 19.

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mrweed offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

You need money for that etc, I live in the suburbs of London… I don’t know if there is anything like that around where I am. Does anyone know of how I can start to change. Thanks Renegade.

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tonya_rogers200 offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

I’m sorry that life is so hard for you . you can kick this addicton find a treatment center. Once you are free from the infulance you will see life throught new eyes.

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mrweed offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

I really want to, I remeber I used to go up to my girlfriends and that was the place I would get away from it, now when I go back to my place with my roomies, I seem to smoke it all night, now its all I wanna do when I finish work. I loved it when I didn’t smoke it, or only at a party or something, now I have no money, eat crap. Depresses me beyond compassion when I am straight.

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i_a offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

It is the hardest thing you will have to do but you can do it.
If you really want to do it you can.
its the three day/week hurdle..
Stop for 3 days… then 3 weeks
if you can do that…
you can stop forever..
try cutting down then stopping
you are so strong even though you dont think you are..

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