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Hi, I’ve met this nice guy online and I actually joined

the website where I met him just for fun you know and even decided to add him to my “friends’ list” because he lives in another country and did not want to actually have to know in person any of those people, but the thing is at first he wanted to think I lived in his city and asked me out very nicely, when I reconfirmed that I was not there I thought he would lose interest and I really didn’t care but instead he’s been sending me messages every single day and he’s so kind, respectful and funny that the first thing I do every morning is checking my e-mail to see what he’s written, we even chat online sometimes but not very often because of the time difference you know, and gosh I never thought I would actually like LIKE someone on the other side of the screen so much and at first it seemed so easy for both to “flirt” but now I don’t know, he makes nice comments about my pictures and all of that but doesn’t flirt with me and neither do I, to me it’s like feeling embarrased that the guy I like will actually notice it so clearly or have the wrong idea about me. What do I do to know if he’s actually interested in me or not, as I said at first it’s easy to know someones likes you physically and that’s why replies to you on those type of websites but it’s been more than two months and he keeps writing to me everyday about his life and asks me about mine here and always makes jokes and say nice things but as I said doesn’t flirt with me anymore, does it mean he only sees me as a friend now? or it means he also feels as afraid as I do that I will get the wrong idea about his behavior? I’m 25 and he’s 29 I don’t know what guys his age are actually looking for or think, please help me.

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stone_wolf_09 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

well i think that the only way to find out for sure is to ask. tell him that your confused. that you like him both as a friend and more. if he doesnt fell that strongly to you then you can still be freinds. but if he does fell strongly to you and you dont ask then you coul be missing out on a wonderfull relationship. if you dont know what to say to him just copy and past this post and email it to him and tell him that this is constantly on your mind.

hope i could help….
stone_wolf_09

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karizzavillanueva offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

make him do the first move.girls don’t ask guys to be their bf…

hope this helps a little….

go0d luck,and i KINDA think stone wolf is KINDA right…try our advices…well its worth the try..

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