life help: I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year - we live together - Help.com

Hi mate,
Listen you need to live and be happy,
If you are staying with and sleeping with
someone that you don’t really love
simply for the convenience factor
then you are looking at this in the wrong way.

What ever you decide to do it will be hard.
But the fact remains you need to be with someone
that cares about you and does not take you for granted.

All the best

Randolph

You should make a plan and try to save money to move out on your own. Don’t move in with another boyfriend for a long time! You need time to reflect as to why you are attracting people who get tired of you and abuse you or people who only want you for one thing and once they get tired of getting it from you they don’t want you anymore!

im sure you have a friend tht would let you stay with them for a little while and maybe things wil blow over but if u cant trust him and you want out of the realontionship tell him if yall have been together 1 year than he should underdstand and he might have a place he can go or he may have an idea of somewhere you could go just be honest with him and tell him hoe youy feel you never kno things could change yall might just be goin trough a rough time

Agreed with littlenick. If I remember from another post you have close friends who are local? See if any of them can take you in. Or consider renting, a small place will be all you need for the one of you :)

You’ve made up your mind of what you want to do, that is a great start! The rest will fall into place for you, just make sure you have a clear plan to make things as easy as you can for yourself.

Pure chick,
beware of those who pray on the weak,
less fortunate and emotionally unstable.

Take care
Randolph

Littlenick,
read the reply above mine and
you will understand

Randolph

First of all you shouldn’t be living together unless your married thats a very big problem right there. You need to move out, find a good church with a support system and get involved. If we live in the world and act as the world does we run into issues. Its time to change all of that. I have 2 daughters one of which as taken the oath to stay pure and wait until she’s married. Its important that we try to live our lives in a morally correct way in this way we can be happy but happiness is not what the world tells us but what God tells us. Yake time to listen to His voice in your life He loves you and wants the best for you.