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I used to know a girl in middle school and we were really close friends, almost like an unofficial couple.

she was pretty much the most awesome girl ive ever known and fun as hell. then middle school had to finished. that was like 3 years ago. im 17 now. havent seen her since middle school. when we were in middle school i liked her a lot. now straight out of nowhere i get dreams about back then and its always about her.during the day i dont think about her. but when i sleep i dream about her. its sucks cause it reminds me and i miss her and makes me sorta sad. so 1. why the hell am i dreaming about her?? 2. why her? theres been a lot of girls ive liked a lot, though ill admit i liked her more than any. but still its been 3 years! so wtf? 3. i do have things im doing like with my job and working in photoshop, and playing sports, and so its not like im not doing anything, i am busy. so this makes no sense to me. ive had a girlfriend withing those 3 years(broke up with her a few months ago, she was a biiiig lier -.-), but even then occasionally i dreamt about her. not as much as now though. um, so what do i do? i mean its not ruining my life or stuff like that but it is annoying.

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Chameleon 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe the only way you can stop the dreams is to find her and see how she’s doing. Maybe love will bloom.

Theheartoflove 342 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

It sounds like you liked her a lot. You two must have been great friends. Maybe it’s just your mind telling you something. Maybe she’s been thinking of you to. I say look her up! Go find her and start talking to her again. You obviously haven’t forgotten her, and you haven’t gotten over her, so why not? Just become friends again!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (13 hours, 16 minutes after post)

maybe she is going to come back in to your live on day soon

xroadxrunnr 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

ive tried looking for like a myspace or something but i cant find anything. im just hoping either what nicoliii said happens or i eventually forget cause this really sucks

Theheartoflove 342 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

Do you know what school she goes too?
Does she have any brothers? (a solution for later)
Still in school? (makes it MUCH easier)
Over 18? (In some states this would be almost easy if she was.)
And last, not a question, but, this is pretty much going to feel like stalking her, you won’t be, of course, but it will definitely feel like it…

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 days, 3 hours after post)

um i dont have time to fin that stuff out. plus i wouldnt know how. AND im not a stalker lol

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 days, 20 hours after post)

This is just stuff you remember about her. What do you know about her? If you were that close of friends you must know something…

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 days, 21 hours after post)

i know, and thanks for trying to help. anyway, basically just her name and what she looked like. i have my yearbook and stuff from then too. the seriously amazingly stupid thing of me is that nearly everyone i knew then signed it, but i forgot to get one from her=/ im an idiot lol

Theheartoflove 342 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 days, 3 hours after post)

No, no. You are not an idiot. You made a slight slip mistake. All humans do, it’s fine. :)
Anywho.com is good for finding anyone if you know their last name. Did you know her parents? Or at least their names, cause if she isn’t 18, she probably won’t show up there.
Hopefully she isn’t out of state? I think you have to know the state she is in to find it…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 days, 11 hours after post)

meh thanks lol.
ok thanks. nope well im guessing her parents last name are the same as hers lol.
yeah cause its been about 3 years so idk. but ill try what you said. if it doesnt work, i guess ill just deal. thanks for all the help guys, really appreciated :)

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

Yw. And good luck. :)

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