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I’m a mum working full time - my partner has lost his job. I am struggling to control money & life and have nothing to look forward too. I work so hard all day - I want someone to help me cope. All the places you’d think to get financial help; government, taxman - I get nothing. I have a good job and all my piers have perfect lives and go on holidays. I feel as if I am being punished but I am a nice person. What can I do to give myself hope?

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chatzkelpoppins 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

your children look at you as hero, and so do i.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

and im sure your partner does too - with a lot of admiration mixed in too!

steff 517 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

I don’t understand what your partner has to do with your financial situation. You already work full time.

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Shie 227 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

well… first off… force your man to get a job. you do not have to support him.. as he is a grown man. even though you have a job.. im sure you are eligible for food stamps… being that you have children. food stamps will save your regular money for your bills… even if you get 50 dollars.. its still more than what you have now.

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Winter.Rain 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Being the nice person and doing the right thing is always more difficult. “Anything worth doing takes effort”. I do see that you seem to be jealous of your friends and their lives. Sometimes things get really difficult, but you have to remember that nothing is forever and everything always changes. It may take time, though good will come to you. If you only focus on the bad you will only see the bad. “Don’t take the little things for granted.” Take care.

neku 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Get a second job. You can apply for freelance writing, bookkeeping, software, transcription, online tuition or customer service work at home jobs. These companies do not require any fee and pay well . List of companies(with websites) offering genuine work at home jobs is available at http://www.pcworkathome.net . Many of these companies have been in business for several years

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