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ok my bf and i hv been together almost 8 months and

i will admitat first i did lie and say i loved him when i didnt but then a month into the realtionship i fell in love with him and yes i made the mistake of cheating on him the first week of our realtionship but then i told him he didnt find out im the one who told him and he chose to stay with me but now he is scared tht i will again but there is no way i would ever do tht again and he still kinda doubts tht i love him idk wht to do to prove it anyone got some help and another thing i think he is starting to fall out of love with me help

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Barbieh offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

hmm… that’s interesting.
do you know his family? if you don’t, then you could show him how much you care by meeting his parents and siblings. if you’ve already met them, then build a stronger friendship with them. i, for example, would spend hours talking to my ex’s grandmother. she was like MY grandma, too. maybe when he sees this he’ll realize you’re not lying about your feelings.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

thts the thing his whole family loves me even his mom and grandma who never have liked any of his other gfs and i go see them like they are my family too

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Barbieh offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

oh, shoot. then why doesn’t he trust you? have you tried seriously talking about this whole thing with him?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

idk why he doesnt he says he does but there is the feeling tht he doesnt and he has been acting super strange latley

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Barbieh offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

you sure he’s not cheating on you? :S i really hope not. either way, i ALWAYS wanna know the truth about everything. i think it’s one of the most important things ever. so talk to him and start by saying ‘listen, i think we’re having a little problem here, and it’s that you’re not telling me exactly how you feel.’

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

thanks for all your help ill try tht and post saying wht happens thanks again

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Barbieh offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Good luck! ttyl, hun!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 hours, 5 minutes after post)

thanks so much i talked to him bout it and he said tht he was just really busy workin and had alot on his mind but no he is cheating and yes hje still loves me!!!! thanks sooooo much

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Barbieh offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 47 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (11 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Yay!! I’m really happy for you! :D

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