Love help: I sooo much miss my ex girlfriend.. - Help.com

She left you four years ago??
If so then there might be a big chance that you won’t be able to go out again
But you should still email her and try and stay friends.
If you guys had so much in common you two should be able to be great friends!

I’m afraid of the kind of advice I can give for this. I recently (almost a week ago) got out of a 6 year long relationship with my girlfriend.

If you had so much in common with her there’s nothing saying you two could make great best friends. You could show her that she’s still the only one you can go to for everything and you haven’t been able to connect with anyone about anything like this before. Because you two had so much in common, if you have girl problems in the future you could always go to her for advice because she knows you so well, it’s just if she’s willing to do it.

she wont even tell me why she left….

she probably just didn’t know how to say it.
But it has been four years.
You should forget about your relationship with her and concentrate on your friendship

Well if that’s the case it’s not fair to you. She should realize that you need some closure to realize what happend, or what went wrong, you know? If she’s being that shut off about it, maybe four years isn’t enough time for her to mature about the whole situation enough to be able to talk about it.

My ex did the same after only a year tho but i loved her deeply. The best thing for you to do is to not forget about her but to think about her less. change who you are. listen to different music, develop different hobbies, perhaps even try to find another woman.

Forget about her. She left you without giving you any reason. How would you like to go through that again? Best to leave things alone. You’d just be setting yourself up to get hurt again. Why mope around because of this girl, when there are women out there who are honest, forthright and dependable?

4 years, you have to move on