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this guy keeps telling me he’s lonely.

i know he likes me. and i like him, which he also knows.

but we’re far away from each other right now what should i say to him??

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hockeymaniac500 online Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (2 minutes after post)

what do you mean you are away from eachother?

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

im on vacation for the summer

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Cannonball Girl online Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
Susanville, CA, US | 2 months ago (4 minutes after post)

tell him that although you can’t be with him physically you are there for him in a way…and that you’ll be home soon

xx

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hockeymaniac500 online Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Oh, that makes it easy, or easy for me anyways. You can tell him that if he is still waiting for you when you come back you two will be a great couple. Or “go out” talk to him, call him alot, and just get to know eachother really really well.

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fuglepolitico offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I second the guy above me but add that unless you both really really like each other that situation can get old fast, ive been in the same situation and then ended the relationship because it was too boring and frustrating and the wait would have been too long.

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Red_Sky offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 178 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

you are not alone.

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Tell him you’re dating someone else and it’s pretty serious. This will make him either make a move or exit the scene. Either way, you’ll know his true feelings.

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Red_Sky offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 178 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Umm please don’t do that…messing with people’s heads is never the way to go.

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Radiohead_Phreak offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Tell him you’re dating someone else and it’s pretty serious. This will make him either make a move or exit the scene. Either way, you’ll know his true feelings.

head games ahhhh nice!!! what next !!
dont restort to head games… its evil and manulpative.. tell him how you feel
if he loves you he will come back

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

head games, ill pass anon. that will kill it!

either way, he still lives an hour away so its hard to see each other.

i dont know what to doo we really like each other.

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