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any christains out there wanting to help me?

I’m a christian and recently i was reading a book called ‘lies young women believe’ it is an amazing book and covers mos subjects and areas of our live. i found it mazingly helpful, one of the chapters was on boys/relationships. and it had ten ways to keep your mind off of boy craziness i guess you could say. and one of them was to write a diary to your furure husband, which i think is an awsome idea. we had a guest speaker at church one time and she was talking about purity and all that, she had made one for her husband. i was just wondering, what on earth you should put in it! i have no idea haha any help.
my second thing is that im moving schools next year to a public school, where im pretty sure there will be hardly any christians and so im pretty scared, about it. ill keep praying tho :)
xx

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singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 minute after post)

Yeah, you go girl! But hey, I’m a dude, what do I know?
I think that’s a cool idea, to write the journal, but at the same time, I find it kinda… girly? Like in a slightly odd way… I guess I’m just imagining what it would be like to get one of those one day from my future wife, and I’m trying to imagine what she would have written in it…

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fuglepolitico offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

so what do you need help on?

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iamozy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 28 #
Dallas, TX, US | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

that’s such a cute idea! i’m not a christian really, but i think it’s a beautiful idea. i still don’t have a grasp of what true love really feels like and i get really excited when i think about finding it. ;) it might sound a little childish or naive, but to me i see no reason why i should hope for anything less.

don’t worry about your new school. jut keep to your faith and if you do want to talk about religion, learn about the beliefs of the people around you and find some common ground. it’s a woderful experience to be able to interact with other belief systems! good luck! :)

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Write down how you sometimes think you can’t wait, write how difficult it is to wait. Write what you imagine it will be like when you meet your man

You are going to enter your new school with Jesus by your side, you are going to ask him to speak for you when you don’t know what to say and he is going to be your strength when you are not strong:)

singleeyedwonder offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Woooo go soulrising, preach it haha

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Brittany_x.x offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
AU | 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

soulrising? ha don’t get you.
thanks for your help.
God Bless :)
x

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SoulRising offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 100 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

princess_too_swee wrote:
soulrising? ha don’t get you.
thanks for your help.
God Bless :)
x

That makes two of us, I think:)?

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Indigo_Rain offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 407 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (36 minutes after post)

I dunno If you necessarily have to be a Christian to answer this post you can answer it with common sense sort of…0.o (I say that as a Christian, mind you…)

The book? I’d hide it in a place your younger siblings/meddling parents (lol you can’t live with em can’t live without em)wouldn’t think to look. How big is it? Try the pocket of an old robe you never wear, under your winter sweaters, on the highest shelf in your closet, Slip a book jacket over it and hide it on your bookshelf, hide it between various other book-like paraphernalia, put it behind your bookshelf, behind the rest of the books on the bookshelf (push them all forward), under your mattress, or inside a shoebox.

The school thing? I’d say don’t worry about it. Yeah, tons of people aren’t like us. But you know what? It’s not our problem, its theirs. Don’t always judge people based on religion, or expect it be done to you. Honestly, most people don’t care. Rarely does it even come up in conversation. Yeah, we can identify ourselves by it, but there’s no need to judge people just cause they’re not like you. The ideals that are preached in public school, yeah, they shake your faith a tad: but if you get through it, that just shows how strong your faith is. What I’m trying to say is: you don’t want to be shunned just cause you follow Jesus, right? So don’t shun others just cause they don’t. Lots of people are really, really nice, they just haven’t found what you have. Just be an overall nice person and you’ll make plenty of friends :).

Good Luck.

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limuru1 offline Verified User (5 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

You could write down your realistic expectation of the kind of future husband you desire.You could even draw his picture. You would suprised how imaginative the mind can be if you visualise that he is actually there. Write your imagined communication, the little sweet things you would tell him. how you would think about him positively.The things you would REALISTICALY expect from him.
You would definatly always remeba that this is a make believe may or may not came top be.

I guez its fun and you know what? you could even publish it some day!!! how interesting it would be.

Personally i wouldnt think it proper to give it to your husband early in marrieage.This may make him try to live as by the diary and that wouldnt be fair.
Write it and use it as a prayer. That God may Bring your way this kind of husband.
And go to that school shining as a light, do not judge just be a good example.
I wish well
And may God be with you.

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