I can’t stop thinking about him.
He’s in my mind day and night. I’m trying to reach him but I can’t.
I have a boyfriend. He loves me to the death, but I care about my classmate. I do love my boyfriend, but the other one is in my mind all the time.
I’m staring when he pass by, I’m memorizing every single word he said and I’m missing him a looooooooooooooooooooooooooot.
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i love him, but i think i deserve better.
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he’s not that good. he’s smaller in age than me and his thoughts is like kid.
Sometimes when we have the best, we’ll tend to stray and take things for granted. When we finally lose the things we used to have, we’ll start to look back and realise that we have just lost something that really mean so much to us.
What im saying is that, u don’t even know your clssmate that well. You havent been that close to him to know him that well. He doesnt even know u as well too. Ur complaining about ur bf cos’ ur giving urself excuses to break up with him. Come on, u already know what to do
samantha..stardust wrote:
does this other guy know you like him? :)
he sometimes show me that he cares like staring at me and smile or help me with carring heavy things. he knows that i have a boyfriend, and i think thats the thing which makes him away.
-deadinthehead- wrote:
Sometimes when we have the best, we’ll tend to stray and take things for granted. When we finally lose the things we used to have, we’ll start to look back and realise that we have just lost something that really mean so much to us.What im saying is that, u don’t even know your clssmate that well. You havent been that close to him to know him that well. He doesnt even know u as well too. Ur complaining about ur bf cos’ ur giving urself excuses to break up with him. Come on, u already know what to do
i understand, but i really don’t know what to do.
ok if i stuck with my boyfriend i can’t get that guy out of my mind.
you’ll know deep down what you want to do..but just to remind you - imagine you have this beautiful frame ok and you love it but one day it fell and you broke it …you put in back together ok but did it come the same as it was befor??? what im trying to say is that if you deside to break up then you feel sorry..things will never be the same , but follow you’re heart be wise and always with an open mind. Good luck babes
what about that guy that ur bf doesnt have?
-deadinthehead- wrote:
what about that guy that ur bf doesnt have?
sorry?
i would just sit down and think - think what i really want…is it worth it to risk breaking up for this guy is it worth it to hurt my bf??
Rachel Lynn wrote:
you’ll know deep down what you want to do..but just to remind you - imagine you have this beautiful frame ok and you love it but one day it fell and you broke it …you put in back together ok but did it come the same as it was befor??? what im trying to say is that if you deside to break up then you feel sorry..things will never be the same , but follow you’re heart be wise and always with an open mind. Good luck babes
thanks.
Rachel Lynn wrote:
i would just sit down and think - think what i really want…is it worth it to risk breaking up for this guy is it worth it to hurt my bf??
i don’t want to hurt my bf and in the same way i want another guy. :(
but wait!! so you are not happy with you Bf hmmmm there is something missisng in your relation…u can either try to fix and talk to you current bf tell him waht you want from him to make you happy or else risk it….take the chance and change your life…but then do not regret it afterwords hun.
what i mean is that…whats the difference betw him and ur bf?
You are confused!! this happens to everyone…i would give it a try a spaek with my bf and try to work things out so you feel special with him..if it doesnt work follow your heart and Risk it…
look if you are unconftorble with your bf then Risk it., but choose right, think before.think deep down what you really want :)
my bf has bad habt, i’ve told him about them and he said i will change them don’t worry, but still. you know he loves me a lot and he can’t say no. he just want me to be Satisfied about him. he have told all the students that i’m his gf coz he was afraid that some guy take me from him.
i don’t know if i can risk it or not.
that day i was testing him, i told him what if i broke up with you he told me i’ll die.
he’s so week, and that guy is so strong, i think that’s way he attract me
Yes, don’t do it out of madness or u’ll risk a high chance of regreting. U need to know that if this step is taken, u can’t take it back anymore. EVen if u happen to patch up with ur bf, things wont be the same anymore. I used to be in your shoes. I kept thinking that my bf isnt perfect or he doesnt care much…and this other guy tells me that i should be treated better. So, somehow…he lost faith in us and we broke up…Im living a regret cos my (ex) bf is still on my mind right now.
It’s not how he should change and be perfect. NO one is perfect dear. He is right to say that ” be satisfied”. If u really love someone u should really love the person for who he is.
I tried to change mine to be someone i wanted him to be and not someone he is. I regreted for doing this. Its selfish. I want him the way he is but now i cant have him again. I cry to that every night. Dear, just don’t regret.
Weak guys are cute….
sometimes i think like this he’s with me but i want him to go, but when i will lose him i will need him back.
i will be satisfied with what i have.
ok tell me how can i forget the other and stop thinking about him!!
Physical appearances are only superficial. What’s inside (personality) is really more important.
his personality is not that good, he’s younger than me and sometimes he acts like a kid.
It’s natural to have fantasies and crushes on other guys…
How old r u?
find a new interest. Go out have fun and worry about pleasing yourself instead of the dependent bond you grew in time with ya guy friend. live life with You bf find the things you like most in your bf and focus on them…dont let any setbacks stop you.
but he stuck in my mind.
Work it out to remove him - “out of you rmind hun!!” it will take time but you have to do something about it…
Its not very easy to stop thinking about someone, give your bf the chance knowing your heart again.
Rekindle the love u have for him. Think about how u fall in love with ur bf. Think of those happy times, fun times…think of the good in ur bf not the bad
i will try to keep that guy out of my mind, but he’s in my classes and that’s hard because i meet him everyday in 2 classes.
well, thanks a lot.
I don’t think u should keep him out of your mind! If he isn’t enough for you now then u will grow to resent him (your bf) maybe u shouldn’t be thinking about swapping one for the other but give yourself some time to figure out u and your feelings and wishes.
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