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relationship or not?

I’ve never been in a relationship im 17 close to being 18… I’m involved with several guys but everytime i get close to a relationship i back out.. I only like the physical stuff i guess.. I don’t mean to be a **** but my best friend said i’m kinda like one bc i only go after older guys and they aren’t always single.. but is it wrong to have fun as long as i’m safe.. I’m sure i’ll want to settle down enventually but why start a long relationship now?

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jessic_spec offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Strum, WI, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

olny go for the guys that are single. no one is saying that you have to stay with them for a long time. you can still be in a relationship and be physical with them. how old of guys are we talking about here

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1 month, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

o gosh the oldest I’ve been with is 26 and he was single. theres only been 2 guys that haven’t been and there relationships were dying anyways

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Strum, WI, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

just be safe what you do it and make sure that the guy dose not have anything and get to know them alittle befor you do

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1 month, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

well i do know them very well.

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jessic_spec offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Strum, WI, US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

just be safe. get in to a relationship when you want to not when someone wants you to. oh and try not to get hurt or uesed. dont let anyone ever pay you for anything

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Another thing to add to jessic_spec list. Dont do things you wouldnt want someone to do to you i.e get with guys who are in relationships. No matter if they are dieing or not that doesnt justify what you nor what he did

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Fever Dream offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 75 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (7 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Do what you want, Have fun while your still young! =)

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