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Why, The Help.com Version.

Why do we insist upon helping the suicide posters when we don’t even know if their trolls, listen to our advice, or lie and do it anyway?

why do we try to change people’s opinions on petty, unimportant crap?

why do we all swarm to a post about self-harm and spend hours debating the best way to tell the OP to just STOP?

Why do people post Anon for months and then b*tch when no one knows who they are?

Why do people post songs or song lyrics with no credit to the band or artist, and then neglect to post any more information?

Any more whys? Post them up. I just wanted to rant a bit.

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-Ifrit- offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 51 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

why not bacon? we are here to help people, if you dont know if they are a troll, there is a possibility they arent and they do need help!

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Why do people start a thread and then never return to it to see the answers? That one really irks me.

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Bacon, God of Gods offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

usually anons.

Chameleon wrote:
Why do people start a thread and then never return to it to see the answers? That one really irks me.

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Bacon, God of Gods offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Chameleon wrote:
Why do people start a thread and then never return to it to see the answers? That one really irks me.

put that up.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

And why does that darn filter flag posts that don’t have anything REMOTELY flagworthy in them? ARG!
And why do members post anonymously when it isn’t even anything to be secret about?

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Oh you opened a can of worms with me bacon lol

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Bacon, God of Gods offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

edit the post!

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Maximina offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 86 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Chameleon wrote:
Why do people start a thread and then never return to it to see the answers? That one really irks me.

This irks me too.

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Maximina offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 86 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Why do people feel the need to leave the site by righting a long post saying they are leaving, when we all know they will be back in a week or two?

Why do teenage girls think we all have a magic wand that can make the boy in math class fall in love with them?

Why do people get so made when a post goes off topic?

Why are some people so afraid of having debates about important issues?

Why does Bacon like to write so many posts?

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Alexaxas offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Why do teenagers think that they are in “love” with the boy/girl they can’t work up the nerve to talk to?

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Why is anyone allowed to post when they’re not verified? That way they could be banned for posting fake suicidal threads for attention, scams begging for ca$h, obscene threads, etc.

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Alexaxas offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Chameleon wrote:
Why is anyone allowed to post when they’re not verified? That way they could be banned for posting fake suicidal threads for attention, scams begging for ca$h, obscene threads, etc.

Ooh, thats a good one. Corollary: Why do people think that posts asking for donations will work?

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Maximina offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 86 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Alexaxas wrote:

Chameleon wrote:
Why is anyone allowed to post when they’re not verified? That way they could be banned for posting fake suicidal threads for attention, scams begging for ca$h, obscene threads, etc.
Ooh, thats a good one. Corollary: Why do people think that posts asking for donations will work?

I have actually brought this up to mods and admin. It was also in a post I wrote about trolls, because I think it would cut down on the number significantly.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Yes and it’s so easy and fast to verify your account - it’s not like we’d be turning away any people in desperate need of fast help, because it’s so easy and fast.

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Anthrax offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
Tvøroyri, 00, FO | 3 months ago (58 minutes after post)

Why do people post at all on the site?

If no one here is prepared to help even though there’s a chance it might be a troll, then maybe help.com should just redirect to google.com. Will that fix all your worries?

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Who said no one here is prepared to help?? Nobody said that…

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Ell♥ offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 167 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

Because we have been through pain ourselves and want it to not all of been in vain.

Because we care.

Because some of us on this earth AREN’T heartless bastards and want to help in any way we can.

Why even complain about it? If you don’t want to ‘waste’ your time on posts that you fear are fake then don’t! Simple as. No need to whinge about it is there really.

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Anthrax offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
Tvøroyri, 00, FO | 3 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

http://www.google.com (yup, works fine for me)

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

But you’ve been here almost two years Anthrax, it doesn’t make sense that you’re so anti help.com …

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Anthrax offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
Tvøroyri, 00, FO | 3 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Don’t mind me. After going through the modQ every day and seeing how most people really are, you lose a bit of the compassion and tollernace. It’s not only unverified one time users that troll the site. If I was to start IP banning all the trolls, we’d lose quite a few of the regulars as well.

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Capman offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

Anthrax wrote:
Why do people post at all on the site?

If no one here is prepared to help even though there’s a chance it might be a troll, then maybe help.com should just redirect to google.com. Will that fix all your worries?

Why are you asking the questions when you already have give the answer yourself before?! The followind post was made by you, about 2 months ago:

Anthrax wrote:
I like the help.com community. It’s a place where I can take a break (escape) from the life that surrounds me. The community is gradually changing day by day, so I don’t really want to get into details about the greater or worse things. It’s like real life, because it has real people, so I like to grow and adapt with it.

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Anthrax offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
Tvøroyri, 00, FO | 3 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

The question is to prove a point.

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Ell♥ offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 167 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

:o …your joking? :S Why would people make lots of accounts?

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

Oh sorry Anthrax, I didn’t realize you were a mod. I’m fairly new here. Yes, I suppose you have to see the “man behind the curtain” in all it’s ugly glory.

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Anthrax offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
Tvøroyri, 00, FO | 3 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

We lost a long term user yesterday because I IP banned the trolling account. **** happens…

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Must feel like losing a family member in a weird way.

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Capman offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

From what you’re saying and the words you use, maybe YOU shoudn’t be a moderator in here. I’m not volunteering myself but at least I’m not complaining…

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Chameleon offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

But why would a long term user troll? I’ve only been here about a week and I already know you mods can see who’s really behind the anon accounts, and multiple accounts. Why would a longtime user do such a stupid thing? They HAD to know they’d get caught. :/

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Anthrax offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
Tvøroyri, 00, FO | 3 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

Capman wrote:
From what you’re saying and the words you use, maybe YOU shoudn’t be a moderator in here. I’m not volunteering myself but at least I’m not complaining…

Brave words coming from someone that’s been a member for over a year with less than 100 replies. Where exactly do you help? or are you only here to complain?

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Alexaxas offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

♥Rαvεr♥ wrote:
No need to whinge about it is there really.

It’s only whining if you’re predisposed to read it that way. Myself, I see it in more of a ‘Isn’t it weird that…?’ sense.

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Capman offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Wow, you can look at stats too. Take the time to look into my posts too to see if I ever tried to help anybody, maybe you’ll see that I at least I’ve tried! You have my “blessing” for that. And there are some (like me) that have to work (or study) for a leaving.
I’m currently in my office, at working hours, posting this stuff when I should be working really, so no need to try and teach me lessons regarding the number of posts I do, or not do. Maybe you can also see that I’ve never started a thread, so at least I can’t be accused of “trolling”.
What I know is that I’ don’t come here (even if you feel I should post more!) to start discussions with anybody, only if “constructive” discussions and this is not one of them. So I end my posts at this trhead now. Be happy.

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Capman offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

The last post was meant to be a reply to Anthrax (forgot to quote)… There goes my “last” post…

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Anthrax offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 72 #
Tvøroyri, 00, FO | 3 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

Ahh yes, I love the office people that come to the site in order to pass time. You mush have it so rough. I’m glad the site is here to entertain you in your long hours.

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Sherooo offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

why do some people, no matter how much great advice you give them, still whine about their problems and how they cant be solved, even though you’ve given them a solution!?

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Alexaxas offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

It must be a natural law of internet forums that any post declared to be a user’s “last” absolutely won’t be.

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Maximina offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 86 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Capman since you don’t spend too much time here, which means you don’t know many of us at all, it is clear you misunderstood Anthrax. Most users who have been around a while understand what he is saying, because they have spent time on posts with him. He is a good mod.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

Ha ha - only in Help.com could you get people fighting about how much they have helped. Maybe we should make a rule that people can only kill themself on a Tuesday for our convenience. Or perhaps the cutters could use blunt objects for a few days to give us a help.com holiday. I’m sure I got sucked into some kind of fake post a few hours ago - but I dont care - I dont come here to fix the big picture - just take part in a little bit of it. This place still rocks, trolls, anons the lot. If they werent there we’d probably all be a lot less talkative and a lot more boring. - Mas