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drop dead darlin'
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i dont know what to doi find it really hard to trust people

im in a relationship atm and im really paranoid about him cheatinbg on me
i have no self esteem at all and its messing me up

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bookworm16 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Does he know you have low self-esteem?

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Sherooo offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (28 minutes after post)

good point.

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drop dead darlin' offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

yeah hes just as bad

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bookworm16 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (39 minutes after post)

Well, if you talk to him about it then surely he’ll understand. If you talk things through with him he can reassure you.

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Cosmic Fool offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

In my experience 2 people with low self esteem will have a stormy time in a relationship! So you need to put in a lot of effort to both better yourselves self esteem wise.
The best way is to talk to him and both explain your insecurities and help eachother out. If you really love him you will believe what he tells you, and vice versa, and this in turn will give your self esteem a real boost.

Your not alone! :)

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essence offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

Wow cosmic did it again lol. You two defintiely need to work on your self esteem issues. Without it love can never really be obtained because of the trust issues you have. If you dont trust someone then you cant ever love them completely. So i think you all should find self worth/love before looking for it from someone else… But thats just my opinion. Or you can do like they have said which is stay together and help eachother out.

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