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Capman offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Weird… ;)

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Middleton, K1, GB | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Yeah That is quite weird

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Capman offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

What are you waiting for? Looking to see if they start kissing each other in the mouth? If you feel this is not natural, it’s better you start looking for a “normal” boyfriend in other places…

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brittanybutter offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

uh yeah, i come from a really close family too, but no, thats just gross, lol, sorry i’m in my mid 20’s and sounding like a 10 year old, but yeah, i’d start looking for a different boyfriend-he should be treating you like that, NOT his sister.
good luck honey

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1 month, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

well, atleast i feel better knowing i’m not alone. Cuz its CREEPY. Me and my family are close but i would never act that way towards my brother. I just always wondered if maybe u think things are weird because you weren’t raised that way. But i am glad to know that others share the same feelings!!

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phuckit! offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 40 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Sounds creepy….

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brittanybutter offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

yeah it’s weird , def really super weird

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

i dunno, the way you describe it makes it sound seemy, but some siblings are just very close, and just because the other brother isn’t like that doesn’t mean anything. i obviously am not seeing it with my own eyes, but i wouldn’t call it weird or unusual. more, disconcerting :p

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

well, thats why i posted, bc of course the way im seeing it is skewed but its like, he’s crazy over his sister. When she’s around the same time i am he wont even hold me hand sometimes. and his sister has recently started to see a guy, and my “bf” can’t STAND it.. he calls his sister repeatedly and cant stop glancing over at her when we watch movies and things. It’s almost obsessive, and thats why it’s so.. odd.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

tell him to go f***** his sister and get it out of his system, for crying out loud he needs to get over her

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

thats totally gross, and I would be turned off by a guy who did that

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

Trust me, it’s hard. and the other day i got mad n actually yelled at him like SHES 18, SHES NOT A KID. and hes like well its different, shes not like YOU were when u were 18. and i was so offended. She’s exactly how i was. (he referring to being a virgin and never drinking, and things of that sort).

maybe he’s doing her. LOL.

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Capman offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
and his sister has recently started to see a guy, and my “bf” can’t STAND it.. he calls his sister repeatedly and cant stop glancing over at her when we watch movies and things. It’s almost obsessive, and thats why it’s so.. odd.

A boyfriend, heh?! There goes the “corruption” justification out of the window…
And it’s not “ALMOST” absessive, it’s FULL obsession. Be smart, get over it, because your “boyfriend” won’t.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

yeah. he took her to a party and then he felt bad after bc he said he was exposing her to too much. (lol) and i was like her new boy is 21.. shes gunna go to parties regardless of whether or not you approve.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 4 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

its fun to mess with him though bc he says things like shes not like i was at that age. But then i remind him, i didnt lose my virginity until i was 18.. so she’s still got plenty of time!! hahah =]

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Anonymous edited this post 1 month, 4 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Okay, so. This is a question hidden by ranting.

Ive been seeing this guy for about 3 months down..still lives with his family, which is fine because I do the same. I was raised in a close family.. but his family is ODDLY close. I guess not his FAMILY, but him and his sister. I’m wonder how normal this is ? He’s 21 and shes a month away from 18.. not a child. He calls her his precious little angel, a beautiful person.. wont kiss in front of her for fear of corrupting her; i once saw her like on her tippy toes 2inches from his face and they were like flirting. Its just all really weird . They kiss goodnight, and the other day i saw them mouthing i love you to each other. It would all be fine and dandy but there is another brother btwn the two who is 19ish and he does not act this way towards his sister. Is this normal and am i over reacting ? My family and friends have both said.. WEIRD!!

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