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TIME ISN’T WORKING!

!! My girlfriend broke up with me about 9 months ago. I really thought I loved her and it kinda caught me off guard just because it never went through my head that I’d ever lose her. Everybody just told me that it would take time. It’s been 9 months and I still think about her everyday. I can’t find any interest in any other girl. I spend a lot of time with my friends but it never feels as fun as being with her was. Does anyone have advice that can help me just get over her.

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unknown123456789 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

tell her how you truely feel

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Florie offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 106 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

yes, tell her how you truly feel – that’s a good idea

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Ms. LL offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Yep…tell her how u feel…talk to her face to face…not on the phone…not on email…cuz if u need closure u need to talk to her face to face. im in a long distance relationship right now and i WISH i could talk to my b/f in person. You say you cant find any interest in any other girls, dont look for girls just to start a relationship with..just have friends for right now. But first i would just talk to your ex first

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6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I’m way too afraid of what the consequences of that would be. I’m pretty sure nothing good can come from that because I’m about 99.9 percent sure she is completely over me

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unknown123456789 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

hey you will never know just talk to her

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

and if not there is some one better for you in the future
by the way how old r u

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SoulRising offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 62 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I spent 9 years forgetting someone.

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unknown123456789 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

9 years i thought 6 years was alot wow poor thing

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unknown123456789 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

i hope your over it

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Florie offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 106 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I’m way too afraid of what the consequences of that would be. I’m pretty sure nothing good can come from that because I’m about 99.9 percent sure she is completely over me

Don’t be afraid – face your fear.

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Well she’s kind of a gossip and I dont want people seeing me as some freak who can’t let go. I’m 16. I’m really sorry about that soulrising and i hope it doesn’t turn out like that for me. How’d you do it.

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unknown123456789 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

it takes time but i been 4 6 years wasnt easy but nine wow

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

sorry I have to go but i’ll check this post when I get home.

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Ms. LL offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Wow 16…you got your whole life to live…im sure u have heard that before but its true…ive learned if someone is over you then they are over you. its really no changing their mind. keep praying about it and keep yourself busy

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unknown123456789 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

but things like this will pass and it will hurt but dont give up man

bye

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smoogie. offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 166 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (10 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Maybe because you haven’t found anything else to think about. Start looking for something or someone new.

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downman1 offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (17 hours, 20 minutes after post)

yea look at other people because there is someone better that she will ever be

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