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My biggest thought on my mind right now is my future.

Ill start off with the fact that im 17yrs old, 6′6″ 185lbs and i have scoliosis not a severe curvature but a moderate one. Its bad enough to where it causes me alittle daily pain. I am also in a back brace i have to sleep in it at night, well anyways i want to be a firefighter im a explorer for LA county fire dept and a soon to be cadet for Ventura county fire dept. im just worried about the fact that my scoliosis is going to have a BIG impact on my training because heavy lifting and whatnot causes me pain and it sucks because all the other guys can do everything easier than i can because they dont get as fatigued as fast as i do with 60lbs of gear on your back. It sucks because the only thing i want more than anything is to fullfil my childhood dreams of becoming a firefighter. Im close i have soo much under my belt im just scared when academy time comes i wont be able to perform as well as i should be. This is on my mind everyday and i need some outside opinions. Thanks.

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Rowass, Gone offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 533 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Good your future is important. If you have the drive and the fear you will make it. Go fight fires!

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

i say go for it! maybe you can overcome your problem enough to achieve what you wish to accomplish

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

I say go for it as well ! You may try and fail but at least you can say youve tried

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

Have you talked to doctors about it? what do they say? Did you or do you have to pass a phsical to get into the program?

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Mr Foot offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

Do your best dude, it’s all you’ve got. If you’ve got the drive you’ll get there.

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dalton2021 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

I Have no room for failure my goal in life is to be a firefighter and yes ive talked to my doctor and ive done the physical test im ok for short bursts of energy its just when i have a load on my back or im bending over its just hard to do and i dont want to fail because of that and i really appriciate it guys seriously thanks for the replys.

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Fairy Pants offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

Found it.

You have a lot of ambition so keep pushing and hoping that you can achieve it. But, I’m afraid to say that you must remember the possibility that this wont work out. So maybe you can also figure out a back up plan? Is there anything else that you are passionate about?

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dalton2021 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

if i cant become a firefighter then its on to highway patrol

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Fairy Pants offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

:)

I’m so glad that you are positive. You can achieve anything within reason.

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dalton2021 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

Yeah, thats all i want is to make a difference especially as a firefighter

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Fairy Pants offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

Good luck :)

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dalton2021 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

thanks again this is exactly what i needed alittle outside motivation and support people are nice on this website too bad people arent as nice in real life

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ne'e offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

I think you cdo anything you set your mind to ! Its obvious how much passion you have for your goals. Good luck to you

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

CAN DO I gotta slow down on my typing..sorry

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dalton2021 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

haha its ok i forgive you lol

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ne'e offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

thanks cause I was going to cry if you didnt…lol :)

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dalton2021 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

phew im glad we avoided that one lol

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ne'e offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

yes I tend to get too snotty when I cry..lol ANYWAY keep checkin back on your posts sometimes it just takes a little time . It depends how many people are online . Good luck to you my friend

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dalton2021 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

thank you soo much to all of you

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Mr Foot offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
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No prob, keep us posted on any progress.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

where there’s a will there’s a way. keep fighting towards your dream.

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