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My best friend stabbed me!

Hi, I’m gay and I live in the States. I had this best friend whom I know for over 18 years! I’m 22 now so I knew him since the age of 4. We’ve been through the worst together! And he was the first person on this Earth for me to come out to.

10 months ago, I met this guy and we started dating and now we’re officially together. Since the first day me and my bf started dating, my best friend changed and stopped talking to me and now he talks **** about me. He made lose over 6 of my good friends and now I feel I cannot trust no one and no one can trust me because of what he has been saying about me. And he told everyone that I’m gay! My family are conservative so you can imagine the harm that has been done to my reputation!

Before you can judge the situation you should know what happened in the last couple of years. In Dec 2006 back home in the Middle East, I had a BF, he was everything to me, at least he made believe that! During that time a guy over the internet started making rumors about me that I’m gay and that if you pay me money you can have sex with me. After 8 months that guy reached all my friends over Facebook and he knew everything about them! They all though that it was me!? I know!! I didn’t believe it either! Anyways, after that I met my last bf (I only had 2) online (I know him through my best friend who is stabbing me) and I got attached to him. In November 2007 things got heated up and I couldn’t handle everyone thinking that I’m crazy and that I’m the one who was one Facebook and ****, they really got me and I started to believe that I’m skitsofranic and that it really was me!

So I decided to run away and be as far away from these negative thoughts and accusations as possible. I left to the States and met with my new BF. And now I’m in university and doing fine and great. But my EX BEST FRIEND cannot stop talking **** about me! FALSE things! I know **** about him! I can destroy him and his reputation but I care for him! He was a brother to me and I love him. What shall I do? He’s driving me NUTS!!!!!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (13 hours, 13 minutes after post)

i have aquaintences…much easier to manage…”i’ll see ya when i see ya” sort of thing and it’s only a temporary distraction when i do see my “friends”…they know little about me and i know as much as i need to know about them. you’ll know your true friends will not care about gossip…you can use what information that has leaked to the internet and the people around you; 1. did you confide to your ex. (the negative things he is now saying about you)…if yes, the damage is already done…if he made it all up…there is no need to worry…because it’s not true. hold your head up, and try not to divulge too much information from now on. if you try to destroy your exs’ rep. you may not feel so well after…what he dishes out will eventually come back on him……but i DON”T mean stab him back. now go outside and play, it’s a beautiful day LOL.

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