guy help: Will distance tear us apart ? - Help.com

After a week I really don’t know how well it could work. You haven’t really had the chance to see how you and him work out in the long run. But, hey, anything is worth a try right? Just keep it cool, see how things go. Good luck.

Hey, it could happen, anything could happen. If you really believe it could work, then it will…Just have faith in him.

Give it a shot, what do you have to lose? Maybe love will bloom and you two can travel to see each other :) Love is always a risk of the heart, distance or no distance.

yeah…. I mean, after only a week, the relationship is more about the perfectly delicious traits that you have sort of imagined him to have. You really havent seen him mad, or confused, or tested in many ways. oh I guess becampio said all of this first. So Im kind of reinforcing it.

Yea when i read “guy of my dreams” i left this post because nothing i would say would be of benefit to her. Or taken lightly but i thought it was just me lol.

I know you are probably young but age doesnt have anything to do with it. Just think past your hormones and really think if this relationship could work. It could it couldnt. But like becampio said dont put so much pressure on yourself on a relationship based off a week. Everyone have a mask the first few months (years). So just be careful and smart…. ok now im done lol

is it the same guy you were writing about before? the guy that has another gf and doesn’t want to commit to you?
i’m asking because i hope you took our advice, because if it is the same guy, i doubt ANY kind of relationship would work!

if it is a new guy, then good luck to you! if two people really care about each other and want to be together, they can make anything work.

Hmm, reading your old posts, I’m inclined to say that no - it probably wont work. You’re only a kid, last week you were in love with someone else.

Let him date others. Things torn apart can be put back together.