boyfriend help: what do you do when your boyfriend is completely ignoring you and won’t return any of your emails or calls? - Help.com

Could it be that he’s not ignoring you but that he can’t reply right now? Don’t get angry with him until you talk to him and find out what happened.

How long has it been since you last heard from him?

Oh that is a long time :O Do you live in the same city? Can you go see if he’s alright? How long have you been a couple? And are you two adults?

If he refuses to talk to you, that’s pretty much your answer there. Assume he’s broken up with you (in a cowardly way) and move on.

Let him go.. from my past, I push my ex futher away by calling and texting every day…. Now He does not even what to be friends with me…

You dump him! Sounds like a jerk who doesn’t even respect you enough to have a conversation with you about whatever’s going on, rather than acting like a little kid and just ignoring you. You deserve better. Come on, girl.

Drop him. He’s trash and he does not care about you.

get a hold of one of his friends. see if hes alright..

i have the same problem too. when he got back from his holiday he was fine but then the next day he just completly blanked me out. he wouldnt talk to me or even look at. he turned round once to see wat the commotion was about and then saw my cryin and then just turned back round. he said its cause he got kicked out of his mams house but i dont know if its true. does anyone have any advise on what i should do?

I have recently been going thru something similiar. Up and down relationship, and I’m begining to realize that I have very little skills whenn it comes to men. At some point things got complicated but I’m not quite sure when it happened. My realtionship has been going on for about 4-5 years. We had lived together for a bit (only because I had gotten evicted from my apartment). He became a total ******* at that time. He felt like I was controlling his life by just being in his house. I moved out (without yelling, screaming, blaming or threats), for about 2 months. During those 2 months I concentrated on myself, work, friends, working out, shopping, etc. I thought about him constantly, but this was what he wanted. I didn’t call him, and he didn’t call me for about 2 weeks. When he did finally call, I had already begun to sort throught my issues with the situation, and the pain and hurt, oh yah and the confusion, betrayal etc. So when we finally talked it was very light, positive. We were able to laugh without it being forced. When we got off the phone I didn’t pressure him about when we would talk next or see eachother, I focused on the strength that I had regained by owning myself back, and him experiencing that from his own perspective and not mine. Thats the only time that you’ll be able to have productive and mutually meaningful communication; is when they are’nt feeling cornered, pressured. And when you feel back to you, and your able to see things in a more real way, you will be able to interact with him shining….

Sonny