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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

omg, it’s the same thing with me, all my guy wanted to do was cuddle, but i was so new to it all XP…anyway I think you should do it only if you want to…not to get chris jelous

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anonymous5678 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (56 minutes after post)

you should do it, but only if you like brian. doig that to get someone jealous isn’t the best idea, the best that can happen (unless you actually like brian) is brian getting hurt, the worst is that you and brian get hurt and chris laughs at you

sorry for being negative, but this happened to one of my friends

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

You should definitely have sex with Brian. At the worst you’ll get pregnant. At the best you’ll make Chris so jealous that he’ll want to get you pregnant.

Actually, you’d probably want to get to know Brian better. You can even do this while getting over Chris. Or even better, you can remain single for a bit, seeing other people. You don’t have to jump into any relationship–especially not one of a sexual nature.

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faith-peace-love offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (11 hours, 2 minutes after post)

forget about chris, you need some experimentation. maybe not have sex yet and if you do make sure its for personal reason such as wanting experience n just trying it. dont do it because you want someone else to find out…thats just asking for a bad rep you are only 15, trust me before i had sex i thought i was lame and embarrased about it, after i has sex i wished i would have waited because it gets addicting and you can get caught up in the moment a lot easier after you’ve done it a couple times. so make out with the guy give him a bj whatever you gotta do, but if your seriously not into him…the sex isnt worth it…n just rememebr wear a condom!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (18 hours, 21 minutes after post)

i don’t care what anyone says, go for it!!! :D

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ahhh, DIFFERENT guy problems…
We’ll call this one Brian.
So, “brian” is a friend of mine who i pretended to like a while ago to help get over chris…didnt work. So i told chris i liked brian and he told brian i liked him. Meanwhile, brian new i liked chris for quite some time…so recently brian admitted to having a crush on me. i told chris about this, and he helped me deal with brian without hurting his feelings. so today brian said he liked me again…and lately he has pretty much invited me to have sex with him. he tells me how pretty i am and stuff and says he wants to make out with me before I leave…and next week there are 2 days where he has the house to himself and invited me over. my modo for this summer is “whatever happens, happens. let loose, and have fun!” so i guess this would go to my modo?
Im 15 and ive never had a boyfriend, kiss, or anything. Hell, i’ve never even hugged a guy! Brian isnt terrible looking, hes kinda cute. hes nice, hes pretty cool. And he likes cuddling :] I just…dont think i have feelings for him. I could like him though, maybe if i tried. Well, should i take the chance? It would be nice to experiment…hey maybe even get chris jellous ;] im so… so so soooo confused
HEEEEEEEEEELP!!!!!!

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