Thought help: I thought this site was worth it I spent a lot of time on here - Help.com

please explain.. you know that allot of people here want to help anybody else with whatever problems!

I assume by the cold shoulder you mean nobody answered you. You can’t sit there and expect instant answers. Yes, if you ask an easy or “popular” question you might get speedy results, but some questions are more difficult than others and it takes time for the right people to get around to reading them.

Patience is obviously one thing you lack.

hey — i know what you mean.
I too thought I met people on here who say they want to help and have repeatedly, almost laughably,ignored or blew me off/never gave me a second thought.
GOtta just shake it off - not everyone is sincere….dont take it to heart, forget about it - not worth your time.
No reason to leave though - stick around/pursue with the ones who ARe sincere/care.
I am sure there are a lot of people who want to help you, even if its not the ones you think care/are your friends.
dont go!!

you know, if you post anonymously, it’s hard for many people to work up the effort to care about you complaining about this site. and you’ll get no help from posting this unless you show your name or the post you put up that people ‘neglected’. put a link somewhere on this post and perhaps some of us will take the hint and follow it. this is a good site, you just can’t expect people to click on every single post and answer them.

which post was it that we missed?

i hear you sicko - — (this post isnt mine) but i know how anon feels - if you’ve been around a bit and then Do post with your name, give invites, are having a hard time - it can be really disappointing that people you think would help you are just m.i.a…or give a gratuitous pat…happened to me too.

its more about being able to count on people who you thought would be there, you ‘know’…at least thats what i think anon is saying (sorry, not to post steal hehe! just i can tOTAlly relate…)…
anyway whoever you are if you shout me and i’m able i’ll help ya.
cant need a site from this site thats silly hehe!

What was/is the matter Anon. You got alot of people on-line at the moment. How can we help you?

Hello Anon. Just to let you know that there some people here that care and DO REALLY want to help. You just need to come at the right time like so many people here have said. Why don’t you leave a link to the post that you made asking for help?

We want to help you.

hey- anyway - just dont take things personally. and if you want someones perspective, ask them personally. i’m sure they’ll help you. and if they don’t, find someone else! there’s tons of people here who want to help….xx

thanks for giving me good luck