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What do you do when an online friend has a crush on you, but you don’t like them back?


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bookworm16 offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

If they say something, make it clear you want to be friends, nothing more. But if they don’t say anything, don’t bother bringing it up.

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retrospace18 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
Winston Salem, NC, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Lol, I’ve seen this go wrong so many times, Honestly You gotta assest what kind of person you are dealing with.

If they are “cool”, and relaxed then just tell them, You aren’t interested.

If they are kinda high strung, and jittery, Break it to them easy, Yelling and cursing at them to leave you alone , etc, etc only worsens it.

Remember what kind of people you are dealing with, Remember what kind of people are on Zul’jin lmfao. (If the person that has a crush on you, is from)

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Make-up a real life boyfriend/girlfriend. Start posting about how much you love them. In replies to other posts, say how much Josh/Anna loves it when……

They should soon get the hint.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

be strait up front with them and say, listen i have a girlfriend or who ever you are what ever you date. ok just do what my brother did go on a date and make them so disgusted and they wi;; never really like you anymore.well never want to go out with you anymore. they will still be your friend though do one of those

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Help me with: Well I went out with this hot guy and i still like him and i want to go back out with him but i am scared to tell him how

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