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i guess im over reacting

so me and my boyfriend had a brief conversation about how things will be when school starts and im at college and he’ll be at the highschool still. we said everthing would be fine and we’d just have to get used to alot of things. and i said so you think we can do do this? and he said yeahh i think it hasnt come here yet. and that threw me a curve ball cuz he usuall will say, yeah i know we can. he later blamed that comment on playing a game with his friend his he wasnt really paying attention. so we continued to text that night he seems short and different from himself. i asked plenty of time what was wrong and he said nothing, and if something was wrong he would let me know immediately and to believe him. so i told him i would. and out of no where he said “im going to go to bed im tired” and i say the usuall okayy goodnight i love you stuff and he said everything back cept i love you. and i sent back, ” :| you forgot to say it back…” and he said.. “oh haha, i love you too :], sorry im tired” but …how can you forget to say i love you back?

and, just for info. we usually talk every night on the phone, but whenever hes with a friend he’ll text me until one of us go to bed.

is he losing interest with me? is the whole, me going to college and him not getting to him?
he always tells me to trust him that he’ll tell me if something was wrong immediately.. but hes acting so weird.. i dont understandd it. :[

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asdfjkl1234 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

If he was with a friend and not another girl… you’re fine! :D

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SoulRising offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 239 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

How can a text only relationship last? It isn’t satisfying, it is sort of like a job to remember to report to each other. Take a break from texting and talking on the phone once and awhile. If one of you happens to find companionship in flesh and blood and enjoys being with real people such is life.

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1 month, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

oh no, we see each other a lot, and we do talk on the phone every night. but when hes with a friend he’ll text me till one of us goes to sleep. i tell him, “hey your with your friends you dont have to text me” and he always says that he wants to text me.

so no, its not a text only relationship, im sure the same conversation would have happened on the phone. but he was with a friend last night and Asdfjl1234, lol yes it was a boy :]

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Mister Tony offline Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

He is sad. Your going to a new place with out him, hes being distant because hes preparing his mind for the worst. We men are scared of change, some of us take it and weather the storm others become distant (like you b/f). Thats 1 theory. The 2nd is that hes just being a normal guy and being a little distant, give him some space he will definitively bounce back. 3rd and final theory is that yeah he might have lost interest in you, but to me looking at the circumstances id say the first theory fits your situation best. - Good luck

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Ms. LL offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (9 hours, 8 minutes after post)

dont dwell on it…take a couple days off with him. not to much and see where his mind is at…me and my b/f parted ways but continued our relationship….he couldnt take it and he start acting real distant til it finally made me say i cant do it anymore. hopefully this doenst happen to u

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 31 minutes after post)

I agree wiht my.LL don’t dwell on it. Somethimes people need time to think things over….

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