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my gf told this to me today (she is in Ohio right now, shes visiting) “Don’t do anything that I wouldn’t do.” and i said, “Um…

Im always at home and why would I?”

Could there have been a better way for me to handle this situation? I miss her a lot and she does also, shes coming back next Monday. What should I do? How do I handle this? What can I do to make contact with her? Her cellphone has the roaming crap, she cant call or anything and right now shes at camp for 7 days. We have been e-mailing each other constantly. How can I cope with this? Any suggestions?

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Whatsername17 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

It’s possible she was just joking.

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suki_saturn offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

yes man, it possible dude lol but i shouldve said that i was texting not talking on the phone XD im soo dumb, anyway thanks for the input man =]

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kim, again. offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I’m sorry…I don’t really understand what the problem is.
Like, if you are asking how do you cope with the long distance for like…one week, then I can try to help.
So, if that is right ^, then you said that you guys are constantly e-mailing each other. So, that is good. Constant communication is the key to keeping long distance relationships alive.
In all honesty, I don’t think there is anything else you can do.
But, don’t mope around all week because she isn’t there.
Hang out with friends (definitely don’t leave them behind. Then they will leave you.), spend time alone with yourself.
Get into some hobbies you like, or discover new ones!
:)

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suki_saturn offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 3 months ago (21 minutes after post)

yes thank you :D
i should hang with friends lol i mean i work, sleep, school thats my life right now =[

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kim, again. offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

suki_saturn wrote:
yes thank you :D
i should hang with friends lol i mean i work, sleep, school thats my life right now =[

You’re welcome!
Yeah, take a break from all that and hang out with them! :)
They should cheer you up. :)

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wowthatschea offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 hours, 45 minutes after post)

This is the perfect time for you and your buds to hang out and get drunk and play some madden dude… NO CHICKS!!!! THATS AWESOME!!! Why do you take this as a bad thing? SHE IS AT CAMP, MAN!! No worries for her cheating on you, you have 100% CONSTANT communication. Sounds like puppy love or infatuation. Either way, LISTEN… Go call up one of your buds, and get a kick off planned for tomorrow. That should take your mind off of whatever it is that is bugging you!! Good luck.

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suki_saturn offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 3 months ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

thanks man =] ur a good person :D
im just really stressed out and i just need to see her bad lol but shes coming back this monday :D

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