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there is this girl that i really like.

we are both in highschool but she is a year older than me. we traveled with the spanish club at our school to mexico and had a “thing” there. since we’ve been back i rarely see her and use the internet and phone to do most of or communication. recently though it seems as if she is losing interest in me…………… i need some help, how do i keep her interested and liking me?

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Narcissus offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (0 minutes after post)

ask her on a date

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LostSocks offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Find the place and time and ask her out on a real date. If she is interested she will say yes, if she says shes busy then ask her if she would like to go at a different time (ask her right then and there). If she tries to dodge you twice she is not interested and is politely saying “no thanks.” There is a chance she is bored with you, if this is the case then let her go and get back to life. People are a dime a dozen, you will never run out of them. The best way to get over a girl is to talk to other girls.

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emerald9 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (40 minutes after post)

I think you might have missed out on your chance- you should probably get some good vibes going before you ask her out. Don’t come out of MIA and ask her out.

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distantdeal2 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (54 minutes after post)

start talking to her more often (in person. Check out if she likes your company and if so ask her for a date. If you think she is trying to avoid you when you are talking to her, it probabley means she is no longer interested in you. You can try to hang around with other girls and check if she is jealous, if yes than you cn approach her again and this should work out for you.

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no_spo0n offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Brisbane, 04, AU | 3 months ago (9 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Take her out! You can’t expect to hold her interst without one on one contact, outings and just general fun!

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