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I’m constantly growing into the social scene.

My friends see it and congratulate me for it. They say that I’ve been blossoming nicely and becoming more open with people. I have taken past advice from this website and tried to apply it to my life. I am still lacking in the relationship department and now, apparently, even worse- I’ve been talking to Lesbian girls and asking them for their numbers.

I need to know how to recognize a lesbian. Because to date…I’ve now asked out three of them. **Sigh** “That’s cute.”, they’ll say. Most of the girls I know I know through my sister. However, she refuses to tell me what’s what or help me out in any way. My friends are only interested in sex and boobs. I just want to find love. I do care about sex and boobs…but that’s more an after-thought.

I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m at a loss. I’ve done everything I can do and I’ve gotten nowhere. I am virtually on the verge of tears. Please HELP.

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Melourn offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (11 hours, 7 minutes after post)

The first set was lesbian… We actually watched the two make-out then when the host said to break it up they went into a bathroom and ate each other out.

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no_spo0n offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Brisbane, 04, AU | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 40 minutes after post)

lol. Bad luck man.

I really don’t think there is any particular way of picking a lesbian apart from maybe that she checksout /makes out with/etc women.

I have plenty of lesbian friends and you would never know, except that some are a bit rude to guys (but that’s probably just them).

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 weeks, 1 day after post)

Actually, after many years of being immersed in the gay culture and not being gay myself, I find that I have no problem picking out lesbians from straight girls. I’m rarely wrong. You’ll figure it out. In the meantime, don’t be afraid to just talk to girls you’re interested in. If they’re gay, they’ll let you know pretty quickly, as you’ve found out! Pretty girls get hit on a lot less than you’d think, due to the intimidation factor. If you’re a genuine guy looking for love, you’re a pretty unique human and you probably have a lot going for you. Get out there, have fun, and try not to worry too much about getting hurt. The experience is what it’s all about.

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