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im frustrated.

i waz together with this girl and waz totaly in love with her. she waz so nice to me n she waz really hott. after about 4 months she finaly came out and told me that she had been cheating on me with her x the whole time. i waz devistaded, it felt like a knife went into my chest, literaly. after that all i could ask her waz why, why did u do this to me! she just kept sayin idk. just a couple of weeks ago she moved to ohio for college,but i cant get her off my mind. i want2 forget her but i just cant. i think i still love her and i dont wanna. idk what to do.

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

BRO, get out there and look for someone else if you think your ready. i know how you feel in a way i know what its like to be cheated on. it hurts, but youll get over it. pull it togeather and move on. sorry if im being harsh but theres someone out there for all of us and she wasnt the one.

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Timehastornmeapar offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

When you love some one, you never truely stop loving then the way that you did, you just move on because you have to. If you feel that she is the one who you truely are connected to, the soul that attaches to yours, and the only thing that flutters through your mind, then try to talk to her. However as cold as this sounds, people seldomly change so do what you think you have to and follow the pulse of your heart, but know that she might do it again. It sound a little like she is just confused about how she feels. However if she didn’t allow you the truth (why she cheated) then maybe you aren’t who she is looking for.
Sometimes ppl just get caught up in past emotions too. But still that is never a justification for cheating. k I hope that helps a little bit.

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

who knows? only she does maybe she just wanted to feel like a *****. cruel but it happens

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Timehastornmeapar offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

she probably siad tht either because she was trying to get you mad at her so it wouldn’t hurt her as much, or to hide some of her own feelings. Or she could just be a *****. It is tough, but in time you will grow from this as will she, and maybe you two are meant to be together. Just hold strong and remember that your friends and family will be there for you. Even if that doesn’t help, then just know that while she was in your life she touched your heart and gave you a part of her love. and once it touches you it is always there in your heart. Don’t issolate your heart from love because of this. Just be glad that although it didn’t end well that it was worth it to let your heart love and feel someing that has the greatest meaning of all when it comes down to it.

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Winter.Rain offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

“after that all i could ask her waz why, why did u do this to me! she just kept sayin idk.” Because she wanted to. It’s really that simple an answer. She didn’t do it because her mother is an alcoholic, because god told her too, not because you did her wrong, etc. Because she made a choice to. She wanted to. It’s not poetic, but it’s the truth. idk is used when they don’t want to be the bad person.

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