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Dad had his biopsy done today.

For those of you who don’t know what a biopsy, it’s generally when they stick a tube in you with a needle that has a clamp at the end that is used to extract small pieces of flesh so doctors can use it to examine whatever the cause for the biopsy was. Don’t mistake it with autopsy.

We went to the hospital like at 11am, he was admitted like 20min later, the nurses and doctors began getting ready soon after (Mom said they hooked him up on an iv, had him with the sticky patches and wires on his body, and that they’d also given him medicine), and was submitted for the treatment like at 1:30. The procedure was over in like 30min and he had an hour to repose. We won’t find out the results for another few days but hopefully that cough he’s had and the growth in his lung isn’t related to the cancer he had. The doctors didn’t dismiss that it could be a tiny tumor, perhaps a small chunk that landed in his lung from (before he was operated/for) his other 2 tumors, but hopefully, it’s not. He was extremely hungry and wanted steak when we got outta the hospital (duh. he hadn’t eaten since 7pm the night before bcz of this) so, I drove him to Chili’s along with my Mom and Janet, my youngest sister. He was pretty happy but still in pain, even after taking the vicodin he was given (vicodin always reminds me of House from the tv show…. Hugh Laurie is hot, lol). He’s doing okay right now.

Also Today…. I got my Spanish AP scores and guess what? I GOT A 5!!!! Which is excellent!!!! My self-taught advancement in Spanish reading and writing totally paid off and I’m proud.

Awesome. I immediately texted BA and reply do I get? “Just Spanish”
Naturally, I got upset seeing as I’ve taken French for 3 years and hadn’t had an actual lesson in Spanish since I was in 2nd grade, back when I was in the bilingual class because I didn’t know enough English. Well, I almost texted back a rude message but deleted it before it got sent.

A few hours later, he texted “Que pasa?” and I replied with “Online. Why? Spanish doesn’t matter to you. You could have faked being happy for me at least.” He then replied “I had said Just Spanish? You took French, why take the AP Spanish test?” Good question but I said “Everman doesn’t offer the AP French test and besides, I didn’t take French this year and I thought it’d be hard. We hardly got thru 1/2 the book” to which he replied “You’re right. Mrs. J’s was kinda crap, lol.”

This conversation eventually led to what I was doing tomorrow. I named off my errands and asked what he was doing…. “Traba-ho.” I just said “I’m assuming this is Juan. Why?” Juan is one of BA’s 2 fake split personalities (Juan is hilarious) who is supposed to be an immigrant and works doing odd jobs. Name it to BA to pick odd jobs. “It was just a question Maria. What are you doing weds morn? We should watch In bURGES” was what I got (btw, my real name is not Maria) which I basically almost said anywhere but Everman and on a laptop. He said “idk….” and I just replied “Buenas Noches Juan” a while later.

See. BA and I do not publicly hang out in the open bcz of my crazy sister, Sonia, and my family. They forbid me to see him and we have to hide what we have going on, like Romeo & Juliet. I can’t wait until I move out for college next month and well, then I’ll have the freedom to do as I please. I can hang out with him when I want and don’t have to worry about much because ah, I’ll be 100% legal as of Monday.

Also, For my birthday, BA is taking me out to Texas De Brazil. Yay!

I hope stuff ends up well :]

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Dad had his biopsy done today. For those of you who don’t know what a biopsy, it’s generally when they stick a tube in you with a needle that has a clamp at the end that is used to extract small pieces of flesh so doctors can use it to examine whatever the cause for the biopsy was. Don’t mistake it with autopsy.

We went to the hospital like at 11am, he was admitted like 20min later, the nurses and doctors began getting ready soon after (Mom said they hooked him up on an iv, had him with the sticky patches and wires on his body, and that they’d also given him medicine), and was submitted for the treatment like at 1:30. The procedure was over in like 30min and he had an hour to repose. We won’t find out the results for another few days but hopefully that cough he’s had and the growth in his lung isn’t related to the cancer he had. The doctors didn’t dismiss that it could be a tiny tumor, perhaps a small chunk that landed in his lung from (before he was operated/for) his other 2 tumors, but hopefully, it’s not. He was extremely hungry and wanted steak when we got outta the hospital (duh. he hadn’t eaten since 7pm the night before bcz of this) so, I drove him to Chili’s along with my Mom and Janet, my youngest sister. He was pretty happy but still in pain, even after taking the vicodin he was given (vicodin always reminds me of House from the tv show…. Hugh Laurie is hot, lol). He’s doing okay right now.

Also Today…. I got my Spanish AP scores and guess what? I GOT A 5!!!! Which is excellent!!!! My self-taught advancement in Spanish reading and writing totally paid off and I’m proud.

Awesome. I immediately texted BA and reply do I get? “Just Spanish”
Naturally, I got upset seeing as I’ve taken French for 3 years and hadn’t had an actual lesson in Spanish since I was in 2nd grade, back when I was in the bilingual class because I didn’t know enough English. Well, I almost texted back a rude message but deleted it before it got sent.

A few hours later, he texted “Que pasa?” and I replied with “Online. Why? Spanish doesn’t matter to you. You could have faked being happy for me at least.” He then replied “I had said Just Spanish? You took French, why take the AP Spanish test?” Good question but I said “Everman doesn’t offer the AP French test and besides, I didn’t take French this year and I thought it’d be hard. We hardly got thru 1/2 the book” to which he replied “You’re right. Mrs. J’s was kinda crap, lol.”

This conversation eventually led to what I was doing tomorrow. I named off my arrand and asked what he was doing…. “Traba-ho.” I just said “I’m assuming this is Juan. Why?” Juan is one of BA’s 2 fake split personalities (Juan is hilarious) who is supposed to be an immigrant and works doing odd jobs. Name it to BA to pick odd jobs. “It was just a question Maria. What are you doing weds morn? We should watch In bURGES” was what I got (btw, my real name is not Maria) which I basically almost said anywhere but Everman and on a laptop. He said “idk….” and I just replied “Buenas Noches Juan” a while later.

See. BA and I do not publicly hang out in the open bcz of my crazy sister and my family. They forbid me to see him and we have to hide what we have going on, like Romeo & Juliet. I can’t wait until I move out for college next month and well, then I’ll have the freedom to do as I please. I can hang out with him when I want and don’t have to worry about much because ah, I’ll be 100% legal as of Monday.

Also, For my birthday, BA is taking me out to Texas De Brazil. Yay!

I hope stuff ends up well :]

Help me with: I feel lost.

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Dad had his biopsy done today. For those of you who don’t know what a biopsy, it’s generally when they stick a tube in you with a needle that has a clamp at the end that is used to extract small pieces of flesh so doctors can use it to examine whatever the cause for the biopsy was. Don’t mistake it with autopsy.

We went to the hospital like at 11am, he was admitted like 20min later, the nurses and doctors began getting ready soon after (Mom said they hooked him up on an iv, had him with the sticky patches and wires on his body, and that they’d also given him medicine), and was submitted for the treatment like at 1:30. The procedure was over in like 30min and he had an hour to repose. We won’t find out the results for another few days but hopefully that cough he’s had and the growth in his lung isn’t related to the cancer he had. The doctors didn’t dismiss that it could be a tiny tumor, perhaps a small chunk that landed in his lung from (before he was operated/for) his other 2 tumors, but hopefully, it’s not. He was extremely hungry and wanted steak when we got outta the hospital (duh. he hadn’t eaten since 7pm the night before bcz of this) so, I drove him to Chili’s along with my Mom and Janet, my youngest sister. He was pretty happy but still in pain, even after taking the vicodin he was given (vicodin always reminds me of House from the tv show…. Hugh Laurie is hot, lol). He’s doing okay right now.

Also Today…. I got my Spanish AP scores and guess what? I GOT A 5!!!! Which is excellent!!!! My self-taught advancement in Spanish reading and writing totally paid off and I’m proud.

Awesome. I immediately texted BA and reply do I get? “Just Spanish”
Naturally, I got upset seeing as I’ve taken French for 3 years and hadn’t had an actual lesson in Spanish since I was in 2nd grade, back when I was in the bilingual class because I didn’t know enough English. Well, I almost texted back a rude message but deleted it before it got sent.

A few hours later, he texted “Que pasa?” and I replied with “Online. Why? Spanish doesn’t matter to you. You could have faked being happy for me at least.” He then replied “I had said Just Spanish? You took French, why take the AP Spanish test?” Good question but I said “Everman doesn’t offer the AP French test and besides, I didn’t take French this year and I thought it’d be hard. We hardly got thru 1/2 the book” to which he replied “You’re right. Mrs. J’s was kinda crap, lol.”

This conversation eventually led to what I was doing tomorrow. I named off my errands and asked what he was doing…. “Traba-ho.” I just said “I’m assuming this is Juan. Why?” Juan is one of BA’s 2 fake split personalities (Juan is hilarious) who is supposed to be an immigrant and works doing odd jobs. Name it to BA to pick odd jobs. “It was just a question Maria. What are you doing weds morn? We should watch In bURGES” was what I got (btw, my real name is not Maria) which I basically almost said anywhere but Everman and on a laptop. He said “idk….” and I just replied “Buenas Noches Juan” a while later.

See. BA and I do not publicly hang out in the open bcz of my crazy sister and my family. They forbid me to see him and we have to hide what we have going on, like Romeo & Juliet. I can’t wait until I move out for college next month and well, then I’ll have the freedom to do as I please. I can hang out with him when I want and don’t have to worry about much because ah, I’ll be 100% legal as of Monday.

Also, For my birthday, BA is taking me out to Texas De Brazil. Yay!

I hope stuff ends up well :]

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Thanks!

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Wishing your Dad all the best (and you too ) - Mas

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (10 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Hope everything works out with your dad. I know it is scary.

How long have you know BA. Why does you family forbid you 2 from being together? Is he older, crazy or they just don’t like him? Why do you like him?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (11 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Thanks, we’re hoping it’s not bad.

I’ve known him for like 4yrs now, he can be crazy (it’s not bad crazy. it’s more like abstract thinking crazy) and he’s only 1 1/2 yrs older than me. They don’t like him for a few reasons that I can’t go into detail about but my sister does make him look like he’s a total jerk. We’ve been through a lot of stuff and unbelievably, I still love him. He said he no longer feels the same way about me though and just likes me but he acts like it’s otherwise. He confuses me waaaaaay to much.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (15 hours, 23 minutes after post)

RandomxGirl08 wrote:
Thanks, we’re hoping it’s not bad.

I’ve known him for like 4yrs now, he can be crazy (it’s not bad crazy. it’s more like abstract thinking crazy) and he’s only 1 1/2 yrs older than me. They don’t like him for a few reasons that I can’t go into detail about but my sister does make him look like he’s a total jerk. We’ve been through a lot of stuff and unbelievably, I still love him. He said he no longer feels the same way about me though and just likes me but he acts like it’s otherwise. He confuses me waaaaaay to much.

I would set things straight with him. He shoudl be honest with you in how he feels. His words and actions should match. You have a right to know what is goign on.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (21 hours, 45 minutes after post)

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RandomxGirl08 wrote:
Thanks, we’re hoping it’s not bad.

I’ve known him for like 4yrs now, he can be crazy (it’s not bad crazy. it’s more like abstract thinking crazy) and he’s only 1 1/2 yrs older than me. They don’t like him for a few reasons that I can’t go into detail about but my sister does make him look like he’s a total jerk. We’ve been through a lot of stuff and unbelievably, I still love him. He said he no longer feels the same way about me though and just likes me but he acts like it’s otherwise. He confuses me waaaaaay to much.

I would set things straight with him. He shoudl be honest with you in how he feels. His words and actions should match. You have a right to know what is goign on.

I wish I could ask him stuff like that but I just think it’s better as it is right now because we haven’t fought lately. I know he’s not seeing anyone else and that we’re sorta just dating. It just gets hard for me at times when I wish I could say I love you but I don’t because he won’t say it back. I think it’s punishment for the time he said it to me and I didn’t respond back immediately. He’s already said that he prefers not to say anything for fear of getting hurt. We’ve both broken up with each other in the past and we hate getting hurt. I know it’s on the back of mine and I know it’s on the back of his because he’s told me he’s been afraid since the first time I ended things, something that happened in November ‘05.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (21 hours, 46 minutes after post)

my mind and his mind that is

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (22 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Life is too short to hold back saying I love you. If you truly love a person you should want to shout it from the rooftops and you want everyone to know how great a person you are with. There are too many horrible thingsin the world to keep playing the silent game. Even if he doesn’t say it back at least you wer honest. However I understand thisis your life and you have to do what is right for you.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (22 hours, 31 minutes after post)

I know. I can’t even think of how many near-death encounters I’ve had and the only thing I think of after them is him. He knows I love him and I guess, seeing as he said “You’ll always have place in my heart” and “I am never going to forget you,” that he may still love me.

Not everyone would be happy to know I still love him or that we’ve been on and off. My family and certain friends would get very angry & upset. I wish they’d let me be happy in the open. Good thing I move out next month.

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 months ago (22 hours, 44 minutes after post)

Well then hangontil you move out.

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