Love help: my girlfriend thinks that im like other guys.

davidplacido1

my girlfriend thinks that im like other guys.

that im gonna hurt her like her exes.
but im a sweet ,committed guy who deeply loves her and she does
not belive me.
there are days she tells me she loves me , and there are days she does not.
im really broken inside about the whole thing that my chest starts to hurt.
we have had only to arguments.
but im still afraid she will stay mad at me.
i tell her i really love her .
i talk to her on the phone everyday.
she lives out of town
and that makes our relationship difficult
do distant relationships work out.
can some one help me

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

If she keeps thinking your gonna cheat its not a healty relationship maybe some counciling for her about it.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

i know its worth it
she has kids that are not mine
but i still love them and her
how do i get her to realize i sincerely care about her feelings.
i want to work things out.
she seems to get jealous easily
but when she makes me jealous she does not even notice it.
i just stay quiet and blow my jealousy off.
she takes along time to talk to tme if i have upset her.
how do i try to comfort her
when she has insecure feelings

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

she texts my sister on the cell phone and
asks her if i would ever cheat on her
i just wish she would give me a chanceh
her babys daddys treated her like crap.
and im so sweet to her.
why would she think im the same way as
her exes are.
im nothing like them.
wut might cause her to feel insecure about me?

maggiemay 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

This woman has been cheated on, and betrayed. By the man she loved. It’s going to take time, understanding, and a lot of love. Is the children by that man? And in such case, she might not be over him! She will still have a bond with the children’s father. Furthermore, when you say she makes you jealous, how doses she do that? And why? Is sounds like you need to set her down, and have a long talk with her. Ask her just what she wants from your relationship. In her mind she might think she is ready to move on to someone new, but not in her heart. And as for the jealousy thing, you need to just tell her, not yell or anything. But let her know that hurts you.

davidplacido1 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (14 hours, 23 minutes after post)

she has children from 2 different fathers
but she told me they treated her like crap.
how can i make things work if she just stays quiet over the phone
without replying to my conversation with her.
she told my sister she was afraid that she would get hurt again.
i guess she thinks im gonna hurt her.
but there is know chance in hell that those are my intentiions.
i really love her.
right now we are separated. she does not live by me.
but we talk on the phone everyday.
she is expecting a third child.
thats not mine either , but yet i want to be a father to them
and later on possibly become her husband.
im committed and devoted to her that much.
and im 100 percent sure thats what i want to do.
how do i approach her on the phone with out aggravating her

davidplacido1 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (14 hours, 45 minutes after post)

she makes me jealous by always talking about guys on tv
making comments about there body and saying she would love to sleep with them.
when she does this i saty quiet.
and she knows i do.
why does she act like that.

maggiemay 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Why she acts like that , is something only she can tell you? But, you need to let her know, in a nice way, that when she says things like that, that it really bothers you.”That it hurts you.” Let her know that you have feelings, and your feeling can, and do get hurt just as her’s. I’m sure that her x, had done her in that way. Therefore, in her mind, she might be assuming, that’s how she should respond to you. Not thinking how it makes you feel. Could it be that she just isn’t in to you as much as you are for her? There is a lot to work out between you both. Even so, this is something you should not do over the phone. She’s scared! However, she needs to know that what has happened in the past, is the past, and thats were it needs to stay. I hope the best for the both of you. Please let me know how things are going.

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