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this guy i met in an online video chatroom is amazing!
i wish i could meet him in real life, we keep talking aloooot and we have alot in common
he got me hooked up on this website to bad, that i stay on it for more than 4 hours!

i met him 2 months ago, and from that we e-mailed each other talked on the phone and such.
the only thing that was missing for us to do was go out, but we cant because were in different countries.

but when he found out that i was 18 , he started making fun of how young i am, and it really hurt me, he started treating me differently and that really crushed me…

He’s 31

how can i get over this? or better forget about him..

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Chameleon offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Meet another boy in the online video chatroom?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I have nothing against dating online but be very careful. Careful with older men who are smooth talkers too.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

I don’t have anything against it either. I was just suggesting that because that’s where she met the last one. :) Seems to me that the best way to get over a love is to fall in love again.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Hi Chameleon, sorry there must be a misunderstanding. I was not referring to your reply. I was just telling her directly what i thought. :)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

lol no probs lilies, I just wanted to make sure there wasn’t a misunderstanding. rofl

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

;) sure dear.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

ur 18 !!!! ur young (^_^) plenty of fish in the sea
lol i feel old :(
I know the feeling btw , it kinda hurts, but u know what , it neva ment to be!
he showed his true colours! he’s mean and careless
+ online dating doesnt always give u the best results lol

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