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I need some help, I feel like life is worthless, I’m an 18 year old paralyzed girl.

I got hurt in a skiing accident a year ago, I used to be very athletich and I had put my hole life on hold for my skiing passion, but WHY to end up not being able yo take care of my self being addicted to my parents or caretaker 24/7. My self esteem is as low as it gets I feel ugly and worthless. I can“t even be happy anymore. Can someone cure spinal injury please!!!

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

With medical technology advancing as it it, there’s a chance that someone will come up with a cure…just don’t lose hope and maybe you’ll find it…also, just think about the thousands of others like you…everything happens for a reason, so maybe it was time for some change…i hope everything works out for you…good luck!

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

You’re going to have to find new reasons to live. New aspirations. New talents.
Now that you’ve hit rock bottom, start climbing back up. You won’t end up in the same place you were before the accident, but you can end up in a place just as wonderful, but different.
Ask yourself what CAN you do now? You could paint beautiful pictures, or make beautiful sculptures, write poetry or stories, etc.
Find your new calling.

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optimismiles offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

god or whatever higher power you may believe in gave you this because you can overcome it. everything happens for a reason, be not sad that some of your life was taken from you but glad that you still have your life. try new things and you’ll find what you were destined to do, and never give up.. life is too full of ups and downs to give up on a downward, not knowing what was around the corner

we’re here for you

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distantdeal2 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 hours, 52 minutes after post)

I completely agree with Mas You need to stop thinking negatively and start to think positively. Believe in yourself and believe that this injury will not hamoper in you in any ways. Believe that you can do all your work yourself without the help of your relatives or care ttaker and try doing them as well. You may fail in starting but belive me in this case that if you keep on believing that you will be able to do it ..you will definitely do it.

Try searching on the net for cures as well inspiring stories read stories on positive outlook in life I am sure it will help you.

Get well soon and I wish the almighty gives you the strength and all the hapiness in your life.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Yeah do worthless things to make you feel Worthwhile.

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