friends help: Torn Between two guys. - Help.com

Well, If you dumped your boyfriend for your other friend, I think he would be pretty upset. My advice? Wait for one of them to slip up and do somthing wrong (reveal disruptive or bad personality trait…. ect.) before making a swap or pushing the other one away.

Yes he would be very upset. He use to think i Liked my neighbor. Which he was right.. and he was like “don’t worry i’m just scareing myself, and i know you wouldn’t leave me for him” /: which would make me feel horrible. Plus, like if i dumped my boyfriend for my neighbor. My whole group would start to drift. Because my friends would take sides etc.

yeah… I know what you mean. I have a frien who is having the same problems, but just remember, if you have a close friend then at least you know someone will tak YOUR side.

i just asked my friend whose side she would take.. and she told me, she wouldn’t take sides. :\

Kids with feelings like yours should be dating, not in a relationship. Why tie yourself down to one person when you can be dating many?

Whats worse is that, my BESTFRIEND likes my neighbor too. ):

Wow, love square….

just go with what your heart tells you, and everything should be fine.

My heart is dumb naive and stupid):

and it’s your best way of knowing who your going to spend your life with, no matter what your brain says. lol

its hard):

well yeah, life IS hard… it’s all a part of the big fight to survive (it’s not all physical competition either) most descisions are battled out in your heart or head, and we have to make choices every day. It’s sorting them all out that gets confusing.

that’s a really good explination. but what if i make the wrong choice. i screw up everything.

Life is also full of bad choices, you just have to learn to learn from your mistakes….. ah, life…. why do you hate us? lol forget I said that.

I agree. If you were on the other side of the relation ship, how would you feel if your boyfriend left you for another girl just because she was closer to him. I know that I’d be pissed and if you do this then I wouldn’t bame the friends who side with him.

Like the cliche: the grass is always greener. Or is it?
This is tough, but you’re still young and I agree with Chameleon!
You should be dating, not in a full-on relationship.

I’ll say, just do what your heart tells you.
If you decide to stay with your boyfriend, great!
If you decide to leave him, that’s also fine.
Either way could turn out for the better and either way could
turn out the the worse, but you’ll learn from it whatever you decide to do.