life help: Like everything else in my life some days are a struggle coming here. - Help.com

It does help to let it out and I am sorry that there was no help for you when you needed it, sometimes help has quiet times when everyone seems to be in the same boat, just sitting and waiting, waiting for what I have no idea.
Maybe if you try again, give it a chance..

If you dissapear I know I will notice.

Glad to hear that :)
I wouldn’t worry about having the odd say where you feel you can’t help, I am sure that happens to all of us at some point, I know I get that often. I will come here read posts all day and not be able to answer one single one and feel like I was just wasting my time and others.
There are other days where I reply to every post I read so there are ups and downs here as well as life, rough with the smooth as they say.
Just remember tosmile when you feel good and keep your friends close when you feel sad.

Thing is probably 75% of the people on here at any one time are having a bad day. Some days you will know from your own experience you are full of fire and come up with brilliant replies. Then you have the other days when you are sitting looking at the screen asking why the poster is so stupid. That is no reflection on anyone. The fact you were out of here for a while has probably given you a bit of itchy feet as well - this may seem like a step backwards.

It’s not you know - even just watching sometimes helps you get your thoughts in order for you.

Dont go away - I think you have plenty to give - Mas

Yes it is, and you helped me without even knowing so sometimes just because you think that you haven’t done anything you will be surprised at what you have done without thinking :)

Thanks nee :) That was nice.
Sometimes all you need to do is step back and see everything rather than one bit, like you said comeing here does open your eyes.
And thank you too :)

I personally think a certain amount of venting is required by the human condition, so I for one am glad you are here, and were able to vent. You add a great deal of value to this site nee, I hope you can make it through :)
Bright blessings ~ Richard

This is my first day on this site. In my desperation and frustration and I don’t really know what all else, I typed the word HELP in the search engine and hit “enter”. It was either that or just start screaming. Anyway, this is where it led me. And then I typed a post. Sat here and cried and typed, never really thinking that anyone would reply or even care. And then I got an email. And you replied first, nee. YOU cared first. I know there is nothing that you or anyone else here can physically do to change my life back to what it was before I lost my husband. It was a great life, which makes it even that much more heart breaking and gut wrenching that it is gone forever. But, that fact does not discount a kind word and a well-meant thought. Thank you so very much for both, nee.

i dont know you you may not know me. but i like and respect what you said and the way you said it. i to feel that way here. but i rember and tell my self that i do help some here and i know b/c people tell me so. and i cant walk out on those who hav not helped me b/c that means that i will be hurtings those who have maybe not had a chance to help me so i stay here. for those who need me. also over the years that i have helped people i have learned that some are not mentaly able to hlp only to be helped. they do not have the talnent that others as well as myself have. and only know how to ask for help. so im soory that i could not have helped you i never recived your post or maybe i overlooked it. either way i am sorry you feel let down. and i hope you overcome your sickness

you are very welcom. and i am always here to help you if there is any thing that i can with i am always around. just let me know.

i know how you feel. i respond to a lot of posts and try to be as helpful as i can. i try to use my own experiences to help people with theirs. anyways, sometimes when i post, i get no responses! but then i notice everyone responding to fake or meaningless posts. i get offended and i take it personal.

i have felt before that people do this intentional, ya know to say-hey, we don’t like you!
i know that’s probably crazy thinking, but i can’t help the way i feel sometimes. as tough as i think i am sometimes, i’m actually very sensitive and i take evrything to heart!

:( i feel like that all the time….